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Sounds like she's kind of unhinged. Meet her for a third date in a public place and if she seems alright go back to her place. Continue like that until you know if she's trustworthy or not.

I started using it because I find it amusing. The name Chad just somehow makes me think of a d*uchey guy with a rich Dad, who spends all his time working out, taking coke and inviting supermodels onto his Dad's yacht.

Phone the guy up like 5 days after he beats you up. "Man, I just want to apologise." Guy: "Yeah me too. I didn't mean to smash your face up." "Yeah, too bad. But I want to apologise, because I smashed your ex's p*ssy 10x harder than you smashed my face." Hang up. Lol XD Okay maybe that's a...

After depleting my last selection of plates I started spinning again this weekend. I'm talking to two girls at the moment, one of whom seems super keen (almost a bit too keen for my liking). Well, there's a girl I met a while ago that I've had my eye on for a long time. We get on really well...

To be fair, she probably didn't tell the guy you owned the place. I mean, she's flirting with some guy, she's not going to stop and be like: "By the way, I'm on a 6 month rental contract with a man you don't know and he owns a diverse portfolio of five flats in London under the subsidiary of...

Haha...well I can't say anyone's spread stories of me being gay before...that's a new one! I'd say if that's the case you have to fire back with your own banter and tailor the vulgarity to the situation. For example, in impolite company I'd probably say something like "At least if I was gay I...

At least you laid down the law with regards to being unhappy with his behaviour. But I still feel like part of that irritation is coming from the fact you kinda know you wanted to go for sexytimes and you didn't. If she's introducing you to her parents and hanging out with you constantly, she...

IMO it comes across like you want a sexual relationship (or an actual relationship) with this girl and you've been hanging out with her loads but not actually committing to anything. It's a classic example of overextending your interaction with her without actually getting anything in return. I...

Thanks guys, I will study this and try to improve for next time. I'm stupid when it comes to taking my own advice... Biggest mistake I learned from here was texting for way too f*cking long before the date. We talked for a month over text and I got to know her really well - total waste of time...

Ah thanks bud, but I already got friend-zoned. Third first date in a row now of "no spark"/"let's be friends"/"there was a friend vibe", so clearly whatever I'm doing I just come off like a gay best friend on the actual date. Women can't seem to wait to meet me when we talk through text, I...

Bah, took a week but she gave me the "I thought the date had friendly vibes, let's be friends" thing today. F*ck. Oh well, as you say...balls to the wall for the next one. While I feel like I make the smart moves by text now, I'm still full of the nice-guy-vibe bullsh*t when it comes to the...

Fair play...well with in that case all I can say is that I don’t recommend dating heavy drug users...

The thing is, unless you're a teetotal Buddhist monk...it's perfectly possible to have something in common with a party girl. Party Girl: *Drinks whiskey shot* Me: "You're a whiskey girl, eh? I like *brand* myself." There you go. You now have something in common with her. Next you gently tease...

Yeah if you're built no girl's going to give a f*ck whether you smoke weed or not. And no need to be a total tight-a*s anyway. If she offers you one small toke and you have nowhere to be, there'd be nothing wrong with accepting for the sake of a bit of fun. But I'd draw the line at harder drugs...

"I didn't know we were exclusive." You're not dating, you said it yourself. Unless you've discussed exclusivity she's got no right to get irritable. Girls date 10 guys at once, why should you be held to some artificial noble standard when she's probably talking to like 5 other men right now...

Exactly this. If you're choosing an untrustworthy woman who gives you no say or input the relationship, you can't be surprised when she declares her intention to abort or keep a baby in defiance of your feelings or expectations. Also with the number of guys on here who seem almost proud of not...

What you're essentially asking is "Do I need to compromise my own personality, emulating girls around me to appeal to them?" IMO the answer to this is a resounding no. If you're changing how you act, your personality and what you do merely to appeal to a demographic of women, you're going to...

So exactly a week after the date now, she messages me apologising for being so busy, asking what I'm up to. It's cool she's messaged but I think I'm going to leave the response a few days because I'm not buying the "busy" excuse. It takes what, five minutes to hit me up? The whole thing just...

Well, I will follow @R.U.G. 's advice next time. Predictably got ghosted this time. Getting real tired of the ghosting routine, frankly. I know it's tied to my own poor date performance here, but if she's going to be hitting me up for a month straight you'd think she'd at least have the decency...

Wait, what? She f*cked some other guy when she was in a relationship with you, which is bad enough...but now you're "best friends" and she's inviting you to watch her marrying the guy she screwed your relationship over with? She's not only cheated on you, she's now rubbing in how she chose...