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It sounds like you're trying far too hard and coming off desperate. I hold the door for women all the time, I don't try to use it as an opener to get a date. It's just holding a door. One way to get women completely disinterested is to be a "nice guy", i.e. the sort of guy who holds a door and...

What's annoying me is that I had this really nice mystery vibe going on. She was getting in touch first. Now I'm dropping some really 100% dork lines and sending long rambling texts. I think I will just shut up for a few days and let her talk to me first. Don't think I'm in danger of losing...

Not going to reply to that in depth because it's nonsense mate. You can believe whatever you want if it makes you happy, but that's a ridiculous thing to assert. There's literal video proof of the atrocities committed in WW2 that was recorded in 1945 by the British, Americans, Soviets and even...

1. This isn't relevant to the thread at all? 2. Crime is a socioeconomic and cultural issue. The amount of melanin in your skin does not make you a criminal. I dislike "gangsta" culture (in fact I think it does a disservice to black people by associating them in pop culture with criminality)...

Had this sweet date with a chick a couple of weeks ago, totally nailed it. Problem is, 2 weeks is quite a bit longer than I wanted to wait to set up the second date, and looks like it's going to be longer because I'm inundated with work. The girl still seems to respond well when I text her and...

Dave I haven't come on here for like 3 months and your posts are still like a broken record dude. The way you keep telling yourself that you're the dog's b*llocks makes it really apparent that you don't feel confident in reality. And you still have this inflated ego of thinking every second...

A ghosting cycle implies she's actually ghosting me. 90% of the time the girl's just busy or whatever. Perfect example: I won't be free for at least a week so I've just told this girl I'm busy and I'm going to go silent for a week and hit her up for a date when I'm free. By this logic I'm...

Meant to say for this, hit up a second-hand store/thrift shop if you want to get one. A good one will get better as it's worn in and will be resistant to damage or damp, so its age will actually improve it over something you just pulled off a shelf new. Over here in the UK I got 3 amazing...

If you’re a smart and maybe even kinda geeky guy, just own it dude. It’s not a negative attribute. We live in an anti-intellectual climate lately and it breeds this dumb idea that being smart is a disadvantage somehow. It’s only bad to be geeky if you’re also weedy and weak-willed, which tends...

If you know she’s dysfunctional and being around her literally gave you panic attacks why on Earth did you decide to hook up with her after breaking up? You didn’t “have one over” on her, you retreated from a hornet’s nest only to walk back over and stick your d*ck in it. She’s nuts, leave her...

Good looking chap but I feel like you seem to be trying very hard in all your photos. Like you're posing in all of them rather than just being chilled. I think if you got contact lenses (cheaper and more convenient than laser eye) and didn't pose so much you'd look fine. Edit: Also I don't see...

Haha unfortunately the party already went down yesterday. Ended up getting far more drunk than planned 'cos everyone was buying drinks for me at the pre-party. Friend gave me a kiss when she was super drunk. She also hinted that she wants to get me partying with her every other week, but at the...

Thanks for the advice guys, appreciate it. Trying to maintain my sense of mystery with the girl I've been seeing, it seems to be working wonders but gets increasingly difficult as the text game goes on longer. Next date is a few miles out of town but I'm thinking if I get the third date I'll...

Aye, still carrying that V-Card. I've just finished spending a solid year finishing my work project and I've barely got out of the house...now that I'm free I've been dating like crazy. It's actually been really fun, it almost feels like getting out of prison or something, ha! Last chick ended...

Yeah, normally I'd not be worried but I'm fond of my friend. Not one-itis kind of fond, but I don't want to f*ck over her feelings for a quick hump. She's told me before that I'm one of her best friends, so pulling a fast one and then dumping her for this other chick would make me feel like a...

Over the last couple of weeks I've had some really neat dates with this one chick that have been different from the usual nonsense. She's cute and smart, very flirty and I want to see more of her. She's told me she wants to keep things pretty casual for now, she's very cool about discussing what...

See, she bailed on your plans but she's clearly dealing with a lot of stuff atm. If she just flat out said "Oh I forgot" or some lame BS excuse that would be one thing. When my dog of 15 years (over half my life) died, I bawled like a baby. I've literally not cried like that before...and that's...

I think you're conflating two different things. Boundaries versus having a short fuse and giving too much of a sh*t. Having boundaries (and a red line) is important so you don't get messed about. But at the same time, getting angry immediately because a girl seemingly bailed or ghosted you is...

I hate ghosting as much as the next man, but you have no right to be "very pissed" here. As someone else said, you're not even exclusive yet. You are acting as if you have been married for 15 years. To throw a hissy fit because she didn't respond about dinner and immediately delete her number...

I had a first date yesterday with this girl I met online. Sat in the bar and got a bit drunk together, I wasn't 100% sure about it off the bat but had a really good time. Anyway we met online. Unexpectedly towards the end she suddenly started telling me how cool my messages were and said my...