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If a woman says these things to you, do you read into it? I had this female friend of mine come out with "You should really feel confident, you're a handsome and really clever guy and any girl would be lucky to have you." I've also had a girl say something like "You're a really good man, a...

No this isn’t anything rude even if the thread title makes it seem like it haha. I was on a date with a girl today and half way through she was talking about how she got drunk and hurt her legs dancing. The thing that weirded me out was she spent five minutes telling me extensively about her...

I see a conflict within your posts Murk. You seem to enjoy the hedonism of the party lifestyle (the drugs, the drink, the casual sex) but you also seem to want something more significant ("happiness", stability, a relationship). When we first heard about Sara you were saying she was really cool...

Feeling kinda sh*tty lately because I used to be athletic but work has destroyed my body over the last couple of years. I still have a pretty good build with the exception of my stomach, which is scarred (old surgery) and fat. Problem is, I now have a conflict between my opinion of my body and...

Nah, she hasn't even been around him for about 2 months now, apparently. So I doubt they're hooking up. Okay, here's something I've omitted so far for the sake of privacy. She's not just his GF. She's his wife. They're married. We have quite a few mutual friends. Aside from damaging my...

Fair play dude. I see what you're saying...but there are a lot of women a guy might want to f*ck but it's not always exactly ethical, is it? I like being able to sleep at night. Also it may sound stupid, but I don't know if I want to f*ck her. Yeah, it'd feel good...but does that outweigh the...

Ah, you mean I should hang with more other chicks that think I'm hot? Yeah, I think you may be right. I will go to the dance night but try to keep it non-flirty. Just hope I don't end up doing anything dumb.

Well, out of the blue she's invited me out to a kind of American Jazz evening now. I happen to like that style of dance so I'm pretty amenable to it but I also feel like I might be majorly f*cking myself here. Thoughts? I've not been flirting or anything, I've been keeping myself to myself. But...

We hung out last night with some of our friends, just a relaxed evening. Friend boundaries were successfully maintained until the end of the evening, when she got very flirty indeed quite suddenly. I was dominating the group conversation (in a good way, I felt very confident for some reason)...

Thanks for the replies guys, I feel a little better about this now. I don't know why it p*ssed me off so much. My ego should be stronger than that. The worst thing is "losing" to guys who are d*uches just because they were lucky enough to be convenient, not because they're better than me. In...

It's minor as a one off but a major problem if it's recurring. If you offer no support to your woman, she's going to leave you. It's not like it's hard to take 5 mins to give a bit of reassurance. Imagine you had a sh*t day at work and your wife just said "Yeah, I know you had a bad day." and...

In a way, though it sounds counter-intuitive, I think the bf's problem is that he's almost too rational when it comes to looking at the problems in their relationship. This would seem like a masculine trait but the way he uses it isn't. It's stereotypically masculine to analyse problems with...

This post is a bit of a novel, but I can't really shorten it much more....bah, whatever. I know a couple who have been dating for about 7 years now. Both friends of mine, though the boyfriend hasn't seen me a few years so I'm actually closer to his girl. We have a few mutual friends too...

Jeez what a whinepost this was. Sorry guys, I just had to vent really. I think earning the doctorate was very stressful and this was the icing on the cake. I should be happy I’m a dr, not whining over some chick. Nah, I’m just starting to see real results and improvements with my game, I...

I swear to God every time I meet a girl I actually like, I just get f*cked by some horrendous luck beyond my control. It's getting so old now, my confidence is really going down the toilet lately tbh. This is why it kind of makes me laugh that I'm still a virgin. Because I've "dated" like 10x...

Maybe it's just me but I don't really know what all the drama is about with this one. Maybe I'm missing something? She slept with you, you got feels, she talked to some guys, you had boring sex...now you're angry enough to f*ck 2 randomers in her bed of all places? Bareback? I mean, you're not...

This is also a recurring theme in your posts. Why are you worrying about what a 20-something year old woman will look like in 20 years? You're not in an LTR, you're not even dating her. She just talked to you, lol. You should be thinking about how great she'll look in your bed naked 2 weeks...

Dave I'm not saying this to be insulting but I'm genuinely wondering if you're repressing your sexuality and you're not straight or something. It's not normal to have this attitude of just not dating hot women who clearly find you attractive because of some bizarre self-imposed nonsense. The...

Getting a qualification is good, getting it to get laid is probably the worst reason possible though. I hit on chicks sometimes by telling them I'm going to be a doctor, it's not why I did the 4.5 years of crippling work, though. I did it so I can hopefully have an ace career. Do it for you...

It was all going so well until here: your normal mistake. ASK HER OUT FFS! If she's "super cute" and likes you, ask her out. You're not asking to marry her. Dating a "super cute" Irish girl is preferable to sitting alone on SoSuave telling a bunch of men you're amazing. The reason you're not...