Rate my Looks?

[nicksaiz65]

LOL... great tagline. The "One"...

And yeah about the nerd vs bad boy stuff, swallow your moral indignation. You will have to turn yourself not into a poser, but more into the image of a "bad boy" to enjoy more success with women, period, because that's the image that women want. Remember it's not about who you are but the image they have of you, how you make them feel. So just start with small, gradual experiments that you feel are still authentic... facial expression, speech pattern (speak clearer, slower, deeper but sustainably so without strain), posture, clothing, mannerisms, thought patterns. I say that because I've been in the game and went over the same things.

Yeah I was trying to avoid going this route but I might not have a choice. This is gonna take a really long time to undo. But I guess I could create two personalities, my natural one andmy “thugmaxxxed” one. The most frustrating part of this is the mumble rap. I’m really not a fan, but as I’ve stated in my field reports, if you want success you absolutely have to listen to it.

 

[nicksaiz65]

You're black dude. You need to be more gangster, ect

Yeah I know that’s what’s popular these days. You’d be surprised but depending on where you grow up not every black dude grows up like that. Lord knows I didn’t.

 

[nicksaiz65]

You look like a pro wrestling fan. Ditch the glasses, get a gym membership and use it, and wear something cooler than a striped polo.

Can someone filter this through an etiquette translator?

Haha a pro wrestling fan?

And yeah, if you all heard me talk in real life, you’d know that my dialect is extremely proper. It’s gonna take a long time to undo this.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Good looking chap but I feel like you seem to be trying very hard in all your photos. Like you're posing in all of them rather than just being chilled.

I think if you got contact lenses (cheaper and more convenient than laser eye) and didn't pose so much you'd look fine.

Edit: Also I don't see any reason why as a black dude you should have to be "gangsta",...bit of an odd suggestion there. Be what you want to be, what suits your personality...you don't have to be a walking racial stereotype because someone told you so.

I'd work on the gym a bit and get yourself a flat cap and a more upmarket set of shirts. Also a nice looking jacket and a good set of shades. Combine that with a nice watch and you can mix and match about 10 different styles for different occasions.

Personally I like the leather jacket and jeans look because it contrasts really nicely with all the weedy skinny hipsters in their ethically sourced denim jackets. I'm a white guy for the record, but that doesn't make any difference frankly. Go with what you like!

If you're feeling macho get a nice jacket and a tight muscle shirt. Another day you can go old skool and get a flat-cap and a faux-fur leather jacket. Rainy winter day? Go for a heavy trench coat and a tasteful sweater.

Hanging with mates in urban setting? Light jacket, tasteful neck chain and a neat t-shirt. Or armless jacket.

Etc.

 

[davidcarr]

Yeah I was trying to avoid going this route but I might not have a choice. This is gonna take a really long time to undo. But I guess I could create two personalities, my natural one andmy “thugmaxxxed” one. The most frustrating part of this is the mumble rap. I’m really not a fan, but as I’ve stated in my field reports, if you want success you absolutely have to listen to it.

Remember when I said use your intuition? That means use common sense. You cannot become two different people.

You asked about looks:

1. get contacts

2. work out, eat better, lose weight and get fit

3. get a nice shirt after you get into shape

As far as personality, what do you believe in? What are you willing to fight for? What is your purpose? Use common sense. You are a single person. Be the best person you can be based on your talents and strengths.

Or, become a laughing stock like hammer or michael jackson larping as wannabe thugs.

 

[Soflobro#3]

Haha a pro wrestling fan?

And yeah, if you all heard me talk in real life, you’d know that my dialect is extremely proper. It’s gonna take a long time to undo this.

You look like a black republican

 

[nicksaiz65]

Good looking chap but I feel like you seem to be trying very hard in all your photos. Like you're posing in all of them rather than just being chilled.

I think if you got contact lenses (cheaper and more convenient than laser eye) and didn't pose so much you'd look fine.

Edit: Also I don't see any reason why as a black dude you should have to be "gangsta",...bit of an odd suggestion there. Be what you want to be, what suits your personality...you don't have to be a walking racial stereotype because someone told you so.

I'd work on the gym a bit and get yourself a flat cap and a more upmarket set of shirts. Also a nice looking jacket and a good set of shades. Combine that with a nice watch and you can mix and match about 10 different styles for different occasions.

Personally I like the leather jacket and jeans look because it contrasts really nicely with all the weedy skinny hipsters in their ethically sourced denim jackets. I'm a white guy for the record, but that doesn't make any difference frankly. Go with what you like!

If you're feeling macho get a nice jacket and a tight muscle shirt. Another day you can go old skool and get a flat-cap and a faux-fur leather jacket. Rainy winter day? Go for a heavy trench coat and a tasteful sweater.

Hanging with mates in urban setting? Light jacket, tasteful neck chain and a neat t-shirt. Or armless jacket.

Etc.

Yeah the problem is I’m still working on anxiety and all that so I’m constantly on edge haha. Once I fix that my pics will probably be much better.

And if I’m gonna be real, I don’t think thugmaxxxing will work for me. That’s just not me. I’ve tried it before. I’m honestly probably just gonna go for a sexy nerd persona. I mean I like classical music, not really a fan of mumble rap... I’m just not a “hood” person. Although I could at least look like one.

Leather jackets are freaking dope. I’ve absolutely gotta get me one.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Remember when I said use your intuition? That means use common sense. You cannot become two different people.

You asked about looks:

1. get contacts

2. work out, eat better, lose weight and get fit

3. get a nice shirt after you get into shape

As far as personality, what do you believe in? What are you willing to fight for? What is your purpose? Use common sense. You are a single person. Be the best person you can be based on your talents and strengths.

Or, become a laughing stock like hammer or michael jackson larping as wannabe thugs.

I honestly like myself just fine the way I am. I just hope it doesn’t disqualify me once I eventually get to the hottest girls cause I’m not thugmaxxxed

 

[BreezyB84]

Bruh your African American... Your good... Don't ruin the mystique

 

[nicksaiz65]

You look like a black republican

Oh I can assure you I’m not a Republican at all lol

 

[BreezyB84]

I would "wolf" your hair longer and make your waves better though

 

[nicksaiz65]

Bruh your African American... Your good... Don't ruin the mystique

I don’t know what you mean by that? Haha

 

[zekko]

My voice is extremely, extremely proper.

I think the Black Panther has a cool accent, makes him sound very intelligent.

The priblem with glasses is that it makes you look like you're not ready to throw down at a moment's notice. Because you either might break your glasses (which costs money) or you take them off first, but then you can't see the punches coming lol. If you can get by without them, you're better off, but this is really just BS that ultimately isn't that important.

Nothing wrong with black Republicans, they're smart. Conservatives want black people to succeed, leftists want to keep them on the dole.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I would "wolf" your hair longer and make your waves better though

Oh my God someone on here knows about Wolfing lol. That’s my hair at a 1.5. I’ll show my hair at a 2.5

 

[BreezyB84]

I don’t know what you mean by that? Haha

Bc your black (like myself), your going to access to some girls most people won't. Just don't look to hood and your good. No white tees, Tim's or baggy ****. Your good otherwise.

 

[nicksaiz65]

@BreezyB84 Here’s my hair at a 2.5 so the waves are deeper. But the problem is I had a high fade here. So I’m working on getting 360S at this length with a drop fade. That should boost my looks up quite a bit
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[AttackFormation]

Yeah the problem is I’m still working on anxiety and all that so I’m constantly on edge haha. Once I fix that my pics will probably be much better.

And if I’m gonna be real, I don’t think thugmaxxxing will work for me. That’s just not me. I’ve tried it before. I’m honestly probably just gonna go for a sexy nerd persona. I mean I like classical music, not really a fan of mumble rap... I’m just not a “hood” person. Although I could at least look like one.

Leather jackets are freaking dope. I’ve absolutely gotta get me one.

You don't get it... you don't need to change who you are and actually BE a bad boy, hood, thugmaxxxed, or whatever you want to call it with the actions you do or the music you listen to or whatever. You just need to LOOK like you are. Leather jacket is a good start. They don't give a shyt about you. They want the image you project. Image = reality for women.

 

[BreezyB84]

Oh my God someone on here knows about Wolfing lol. That’s my hair at a 1.5. I’ll show my hair at a 2.5

Yeah man.... The deeper the waves, the wetter the babes

 

[BreezyB84]

@BreezyB84 Here’s my hair at a 2.5 so the waves are deeper. But the problem is I had a high fade here. So I’m working on getting 360S at this length with a drop fade. That should boost my looks up quite a bit
[REMOVED]

Why chop the sides??

 

[nicksaiz65]

You don't get it... you don't need to change who you are and actually BE a bad boy, hood, thugmaxxxed, or whatever you want to call it with the actions you do or the music you listen to or whatever. You just need to LOOK like you are. Leather jacket is a good start. They don't give a shyt about you. They want the image you project. Image = reality for women.

Ohhhhhh. Well that’s super easy haha.