in hot water

[Ryan Adams]

got caught talking to 2 chicks. Not dating either only banged one of them. Other chick texted me. I want nothing to do with you now you have 0 respect. how should i reply lol.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

got caught talking to 2 chicks. Not dating either only banged one of them. Other chick texted me. I want nothing to do with you now you have 0 respect. how should i reply lol.

Don't. If your our there being a player this actually helps you.

 

[Ryan Adams]

so just dont respond to her? I havent banged this chick the one that's mad. so it's like ughhhh we have nothing invested here lol.

 

[AJ84]

so just dont respond to her? I havent banged this chick the one that's mad. so it's like ughhhh we have nothing invested here lol.

Why respond at all? You weren’t dating her but she obviously is pissed that you were talking to another girl. That’s not on you, that’s on her but in any case she made it pretty clear to buzz off. She wanted some exclusivity or something from you from the start which is unrealistic. You’re single, you’re talking to other girls so what’s the point of replying to one who doesn’t want you to do that when you’re not even dating her?

 

[ohrein]

You should reply, "Do you need respect to sleep with me or?...."

 

[TBG]

Like you're the only dude she's talking to.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I know right lol. I wanna be like sorry I'm single and we both agreed we dont want to rush into anything. .

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I want nothing to do with you now you have 0 respect.

Girls who really want nothing to do with you don't tell you directly; they show you by disappearing. What's going on here is she wants you to talk her round. Make up some bullsh!t about the other girl being your ex and wanting to move on, or some sh!t.

 

[sazc]

There's really nothing to say. She may just be looking for an argument. Let her be, why waste your time?

 

[wifehunter]

Remember back when 'harems' were a thing. Why not now?

 

[Ryan Adams]

well I she is my good friends girlfriends sister so I dont want her to absolutely hate me for his sake. even though she has no reason too

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

"I didn't know we were exclusive."

You're not dating, you said it yourself. Unless you've discussed exclusivity she's got no right to get irritable. Girls date 10 guys at once, why should you be held to some artificial noble standard when she's probably talking to like 5 other men right now?

The differences comes if you did promise exclusivity, at which point talking to another chick is a d*uche move.

 

[Dingo]

No response is the best response.

 

[wifehunter]

No response is the best response.

No energy or time expended! : )

 

[wifehunter]

"I didn't know we were exclusive."

You're not dating, you said it yourself. Unless you've discussed exclusivity she's got no right to get irritable. Girls date 10 guys at once, why should you be held to some artificial noble standard when she's probably talking to like 5 other men right now?

The differences comes if you did promise exclusivity, at which point talking to another chick is a d*uche move.

Yes, 'the talk' needs to happen before you're done 'playing the field'.

If not, this a red flag. See: bpd, entitlement, feminism, b!tch, etc.

 

[17 shots]

You own it, and come off arrogant about it. They respect you when you're bluntly honest. Don't back down or hide from it, and don't apologize. If you lose her, u lose her. It doesn't matter, but always own it when u get caught by any woman

Tell her you're not my girlfriend, so idk what you're mad about. Get over it