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    Is everyone working out??

    My finances are in good standing. I would consider myself better than average looking. Working out has been a lifestyle change for almost 4 years now. I do not work for or advertise for beachbody but I subscribe to their fitness products and if you follow them to the letter, you will see...
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    HB8 Realtor - Single - No kids - Should I?

    Girls have come over just to smoke CIGS in the past. This post was hi-jacked a bit. I will let you know how it goes. I wasn't sure if there was some legal boundary that if I had knew, I would not attempt. It's "Realtor" where I come from. Call her whatever you want :)
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    HB8 Realtor - Single - No kids - Should I?

    Who said weed?
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    HB8 Realtor - Single - No kids - Should I?

    So I'm working on selling my marital home to build new. I've spoke to 2 banks, builders and one realtor. I've got the green light to move forward but didn't like the realtor so I asked for a referral. The bank refers me to this HB8. Now before an overthinking begins, I get that she is wanting...
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    Very good advice. I could actually reword what you just wrote, use it in message and get her back, but it would only be for one more bang and as you all know, runnin away is the only option. Excellent advice nonetheless.
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    Made her laugh a lot.
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    How Strict Are You About Disrespect?

    In Mystery Method it talks about "no big deal" and how we are supposed to treat everything that way. I start a counter. If I have to say no big deal early on, I dump her. If I have to say it once a week or more, I dump her. No big deal
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    Well, with this last one, I can't say that she ever mentioned anything about how amazing the sex was, ever that I can recall. And I never brought it up like "wow wasn't that good?". She did tell me that she told some of her close family about it. I told her that I was beginning to believe that...
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    And there's where my frustration lies. I feel like there is always a way to win, indefinitely. But when one encompasses the full scope of this...wow...impossible comes to mind...and it's not like me to accept it for what it is. Not when we are the prize. I mean I have a nice home and career...
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    I was good to her. Her husband was calling her every name in the book and physically abusing her (never around me). I did what she asked. Went to family functions as she stressed this was important to her and they loved me. We also did tons of fun things and she mentioned that she hasn't seen...
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    Nope, haven't been laid since and haven't tried either.
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    Too distant Too busy Too guarded All the above....check I have a follow up question - Based on your response, I would speculate that women generally would settle for sub par intimacy (my examples all included intense emotion from the women) for a lifetime...versus working through other issues...
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    That sucks about the value given to sexual performance. I always appreciate the input though. Thanks!
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    It was a passionless sexless marriage for the most part for most of the years married until I began a fitness journey 10-1-13. Shortly after committing to P90X on that day, I couldn't peal her off of me. Some time later she met a girlfriend that divorced her hs sweetheart. My ex seen her...
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    Does Being A Rockstar in Bed Hold Little Value?

    This is a question that has been on my mind lately only because what I've been told about my performance unprovokingly. In no means am I trying to sound like I'm bragging and I understand that women's words mean one thing and their behavior another. However, I will say that their words have been...
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    Help with ex-wife?

    3 kids, married 11, dated 6 Do automatic withholding. The late complaint will be forever gone. It's a much better life for you. I have ex wife extremism. I walked from her but kept the house, stuff and 50/50. False restraining orders overturned, child protective worker almost lost her job and...
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    Exe's That Came Back, When You Never Thought They Would

    Yes. Weird right? Well, not really because I would venture to say your value was so high that it left a residual perception of high value later on down the line. So much so that they reach out to you months, years later. I would also guess that comfortability plays a large roll for their return...
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    My ex got fat.. why?

    I wouldn't right it off to a thyroid or steroid issue. One could assume then that most of them (in this case) develop a thyroid concern or start a steroid for whatever reason and gain weight after the breakup - not likely in my opinion.
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    My ex got fat.. why?

    See my post. I would say valid concern here.
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