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    My ex got fat.. why?

    Ugh, this post hit home Ex wife - at least 30 lbs within the first year of separation while dating LTR Second Ex since divorce - maybe 50 lbs about a year after Third Ex - 20lbs (she told me) and she was a smaller frame girl so it really showed. Not enough material to spread it out I guess...
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    Sooo, Go Out Alone?

    Most, if not all, of my friends are either settled down or single and fed up with women altogether, usually from a bad outcome of a relationship. Getting any of them to go out is like pulling teeth. I've even ventured out to more distant single friends and they just want to meet at the gym and...
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    "How are you?" Ex resurfaces after about a month

    I'm not desperate. Truth is - I liked her... The negative stuff I mentioned came to light after I had emotionally invested in her. Sometimes you really do a feel a connection with someone...and then the wheels come off when you learn more about them. I will continue no contact. There is no...
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    "How are you?" Ex resurfaces after about a month

    Honestly I would love to say "Hey, I miss you" because I do. But that's Beta, I guess... I initially broke up with her. Ended up banging her a few more times as she texted me. (Loved banging her!). Didn't hear from her again. Texted her over a week later and asked her if she was ok. She...
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    "How are you?" Ex resurfaces after about a month

    I said "I'm doing good. You" She said "good thanks". I said "that's all I got. Have a good one" She said. "I'm glad you're doing good, it was nice to hear from you". I didn't say much but, ok? Didn't go further. A little background - I've been divorced over 2 years, read mystery method and...
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    "How are you?" Ex resurfaces after about a month

    How would you proceed? She is low value, unarguably. I liked her a lot however. This is no contact for about a month now... Seeking advice..
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    What should I write on my POF profile?

    These hot ones are not who they look like. When they block and delete they are the hackers. They will try to text you. They have similar profile infos and always show they have no children. She wasn't real, bro. Sorry.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Well said. My last I didn't get a single message from. It is for the better even though I've felt the same things and enjoyed her.
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    Online Girls Move On So Damn Quick!

    They all have terrible reviews. I wouldn't recommend paying for one. POF is the only one that I know of that allows you to see the photos and chat. Don't focus too much on the headline or profile. My profession I put "six figures". Let them ask later.. Do have the best pics available but do...
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    Red-Pill Clarity and The Rationale Male Book

    Zero effs are given about the ex wife. Believe me she's known that since the beginning of the divorce. Oddly, the more I pull away (eliminated all exchanges, and more things since I don't have to see her) she tries to get closer and get my attention more. The NC I have with her is only comms are...
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    Online Girls Move On So Damn Quick!

    I've dated 2 on POF (before I swallowed the red pill). First hb7 - moved her in after 8 months. Broke up on our 1 year. Still banged for a few weeks after occasionally. She would do her laundry and fold mine, we bang and the she would leave. That was at the end of the relationship. Recently ran...
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    Red-Pill Clarity and The Rationale Male Book

    I just finished "The Rationale Male" cover to cover and have had a few days to reflect on what I've learned, and found some confusing and somewhat conflicting (to myself internally) information that I hoping some of you could help me clear up, or give some insight to. A little background of...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 19 Still think about her when I wake up. I've been doing no contact with any girls. Only had 3 plates spinning at the time. Dropped them all for a 30 day challenge just between a friend and I. He seen too much negativity from women and his drinking has been out of control for a few years...
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