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    No Sex Because Herpes?

    It just sucks. She actually seems legit. She has brought me gifts for my new house and even helped me paint my huge garage. She has a solid career, good family background, her own place, car, etc. She’s also just over 5 feet, maybe 100-110 pounds, super tight, blonde, beautiful face, at least...
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    No Sex Because Herpes?

    Met a nice 8/9 woman, late 20s, has her stuff together, many positives. She’s stayed over a couple of nights but no sex and I was like what the heck is up with that? I mean that is totally weird to me.. I’m still amazed and don’t know what to think really but Here’s the deal. She had kidney...
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    Eff My Life - Looking for a little GUIDANCE

    So what I did is sent that text - you just want to be my bud? - and she called right away and basically asked if I was effing kidding her. Lmao. She also mentioned that she offered to come over last night. She does seem higher grade, educated, maintained her own place for five years, career...
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    Eff My Life - Looking for a little GUIDANCE

    So ya, I probably could have. She offered to come over tonight but she would’ve had to ditch her kid and her kid is gone all weekend and so are mine and I work tomorrow early. But she was actually willing to do that. For me it is the time thing. Haven’t even met. Who talks for that long? We...
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    Eff My Life - Looking for a little GUIDANCE

    I should add that she is telling me both in text and phone that she wants a relationship with me and has not even met me. AFC comes to mind. I haven't dealt with this in a few months so that is why I asked..
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    Eff My Life - Looking for a little GUIDANCE

    I do have options but I typically don't date this time of year until early spring. I go on trips almost every weekend this time of year and I am not going to be in a dating situation during that time. And I will not bring a woman with me. What I do is I snowmobile and Ski on the north shore...
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    Eff My Life - Looking for a little GUIDANCE

    I just did the math thanks to my iPhone tracking the length of calls. Ugh...I'm at exactly 11 hours and 30 minutes. Seriously (puts gun in mouth...pulls trigger) She will call, and call, and text, and then probably stop. She will call tonight, most likely even on my way home.
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    Eff My Life - Looking for a little GUIDANCE

    She's 29, 1 kid, pretty hot, seems super in to me. She calls all the time and I have never met her. I answer maybe half the time. She never complains about it. Last night after we made plans to meet up in the evening, calls me and says she's too tired. Literally, while on the phone, goes to...
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    Ex Wife’s Ex Best Friend

    My ex wife is the worst of the worst. We share 3 kids and we haven’t spoke to each other in years (been divorced 3 years). She’s the type to have maybe 1 friend, or no friends. Poster child for monkey branching as she had another guy as soon as she said divorce. That’s another story but the...
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    Ex Wife Coaching Our Kids on "Moving On"

    Our kids are 12, 10 and 6, boy, girl, boy. Now I hear a lot of BS coming from her end through the kids and I blow it off as if she didn't say anything. I don't go to her ask her why she says the things she does. I just pretend she doesn't exist. We have 50/50 and equal custody both physical...
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    Joe Haskamp, Author of Walking Through The Pain, Reaches out to me. Thoughts?

    So I'll attach the images from the correspondence. He said that he would talk to me confidentially for free. Well, I see this a year almost a year after he sent it and I think he is encouraging Blue Pill? I don't know but his reaction says a lot. Here is a link to his book...
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    Stay vigilant my dudes/DJ’s

    Tell the truth to your family. She wanted a one-sided open marriage. Don’t mention the recording. Leave it at that. The therapist did you a solid. A thank you letter is in order. Don’t ever get married. That’s where you were a fool. I was married 11 years, 3 kids, divorced 3 with 50/50...
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    POF Opening Messages - What has worked for You?

    So I've been building a house and recently moved in. (Still moving in really). It's been a while since I have dated. I banged a few ex's for a while and that has fizzled out a few months ago and I thought I would try POF again. I am also going out to local pubs to meet people in the new area I...
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    Divorced 3 years later and the Challenges

    Wow! Excellent response! And so true. Like, do we know each other? Lol!
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    Divorced 3 years later and the Challenges

    Excellent reply! Can I share this?
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    Divorced 3 years later and the Challenges

    im not sure if this is the right place to vent so let me know if I should go elsewhere.. But I’ll tell you what, divorced with 3 kids 50/50 isn’t bad at all. 3 years I’ve been doing the DJ thing when I don’t have them and then back to parenting business when I do. And nail it. A lot of people...
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    Does divorce really mean loss of half your assets?

    In my case, was married 11 years, 3 kids. She was entitled to half of the equity of the home (positive or negative). The appraiser heard my story and that I was keeping the house and appraised it $30,000 below market value. I have the docs to support that. She wanted sole custody and it did...
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    Something is Up, or not so much - need some help at 38yo

    The doctor did prescribe a generic version of Viagra. It only works when if I get aroused so it's not like I have to walk around with a hard on if I take it and nothing happens. I did try it. Seems to have been the trick. Thanks for the help
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