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    How do you handle FLAKES

    I wanted to add that I do appreciate the advice here. It really helps me a lot to learn and grow in this arena of life. Also having experienced people like you that have gone through this stuff or maybe seen others go through it, sometimes the mind is foggy and it helps tremendously to have...
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    How do you handle FLAKES

    I do care. I like the idea of answering text when you can. They generally think I don’t care to date them when I delay response, from what I’ve found. I still do it. The only purpose it really serves is eventual quietness from her end and some peace on my end, mixed with occasional...
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    How do you handle FLAKES

    She talks usually about becoming a family and wanting that. She has one younger child, I have 3 with joint custody. Only thing I was looking to blend is my D with her V. I don’t normally see women much in the winter where I am and the activities I do. It is my fault. I’m in a good city for it...
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    How do you handle FLAKES

    Feels like a slap in the face... she did call twice the next day. I never replied in anyway. I think that was 2 days ago.
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    How do you handle FLAKES

    Ignore her persistentance? Just up and sleep/go out with others? None of it feels right... though I get it...
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    How do you handle FLAKES

    Not sure how to handle the flakes of the dating world. Example, last night I had no kids, girl calls, says she wants to come over, has a few things to do, texts me a couple nudes and then ends the night with a text saying “goodnight babe. Sweet dreams. Hope you’re not mad at me.” My response...
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    What will marriage give a man that he doesn’t already have?

    Asking for my future adult boys that I raise truly 50/50. I need to be able to tell them someday
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    Response?

    She’s calling now. I’m running my kids around. Any other thoughts would be helpful. Thank you
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    Response?

    Yes
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    Response?

    Ugh, gaslighting..
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    Response?

    She said she’s not like that and doesn’t want to talk to other guys. She said “I like you hun” She said she updated that the first week we dated. She actually updated it the first time we slept together, last Thursday. Day sex. She loved it and I consider her borderline boring I don’t know...
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    Response?

    Adding to my last post of her updating her profile... I told her that “it sorta changes things...” and sent her a screen shot of her updated pics in a text. She responded many times and I remained quiet but responded once after her, what I call “false male validation” (I want you blah blah)...
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    She Updated Her Dating Profile

    I’m 37 and have re entered the dating scene about 4 years ago with the help of Mystery and Rollo. I have much respect for both of them, more so Rollo. But when this happens, I am human, and it’s a sinking feeling to see the girl you just banged and she wants a relationship blah blah and there...
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    She Updated Her Dating Profile

    I’ve seen this a few times. Date a girl, sleep with her, she comes over, texts, calls all the time. Things seem to be going good, having fun, and then a little intuition sets in, a few weeks or a month later, and you wonder if this girl is still online dating so you check and I’ll be got dammed...
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    Recent Short Term, now Ex, wants to "talk"

    Would you say anything at all? Or just continue ghost
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    Recent Short Term, now Ex, wants to "talk"

    Nothing in it for me. She will probably show up at my house tonight or tomorrow if I do not respond...
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    Recent Short Term, now Ex, wants to "talk"

    We only dated a few weeks. Ghosted her for low interest on her end and then she disrespected me on Friday I think it was when I texted her she responded "who is this". Anyway, deleted her info and blocked her right away and she has been coming through Facebook messenger the entire time, wants...
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    No Sex Because Herpes?

    So, the girl doesn’t act super interested anymore. I’m not sure what the deal is, maybe just not into me which is no big deal. Last night I got 2 hour lecture from my closest friend about this and he just had another friend go through a similar situation (herpes disclosed beforehand, no...
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    No Sex Because Herpes?

    She has 2 scars from both transplants.
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