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Punishment should not be necessary, if it is then the relationship is dysfunctional and I'm out. I will communicate what I have a problem with, they either care about me enough to do something about it or they don't. If they don't then I'm simply just out.

Most of that is just attitude adjustment. Sounds simple enough, but most adult humans have a really really hard time changing their minds because they think they already know what's best. Step 1 is opening up to the idea that everything you think you know might be wrong and then start...

I don't deal with it, I do nothing and carry on with my day undisturbed by this. It's not my problem what these couples are doing, all I'm doing is existing, that's not something that needs dealing with.

IOI? She's PAID to be there and be nice to customers, one of those being saying hello to them. You could say this IOI is so subtle that it's not an IOI at all, it would just be you conflating the significance of common behavior.

Looks like it's more about a lack of genetic diversity, so probably still way more than 1 man to 17 women, they just had the same Y chromosome. That's what they find and analyze after 5-7000 years, the DNA and more specifically the male chromosome, they're not directly counting the remains of 1...

I don't think spreading out the forum with more sections will do anyone any good. The exchange of opinion between the younger and older generations is healthy, it forces everyone to think differently and may lead to overall better understanding. If we create artificial barriers to that, we'll...

The manosphere has a particular interpretation of reality. Any man on this forum who go out to actually observe the reality that surrounds them will be light-years ahead of the manosphere, IF they can separate the interpretations from the raw observations (subjective from objective). Critical...

Definitely, I weigh the beans to grind for the amount of coffee I want to brew. Doesn't even take more time, it's done in the time it takes to heat the water. I need a new grinder though, there's too much fines coming out of my current one regardless of grind setting.

Given how passive you are, you'll continue to get nothing if you continue doing nothing. Women won't just suddenly fall onto your lap, you'll have to make your presence known. Since you're not an extrovert who likes to grab the attention of everyone around that leaves going up to them to talk...

Maybe, maybe not. Could just be general trust issues based on previous experiences that she described to you and it's hard to shake the feeling. I would just calmly keep to the truth and if she sabotages herself, then that's just what happens, your conscience is clean at least.

Had to split my post because it got too long (I warned you all)... I've done my best here, but ultimately it's all up to you. There's nothing I or anyone else on this forum can say or do to convince you of anything unless you choose to see what we see in order to understand. Maybe you perceive...

Alright, strap in, this is going to be a long one. I have only read the OP, not bothered to read all the replies so far. I will pick out bits of it with quotes and reply to that, offering my perspective. Right off the bat it might be worth following this intuition, trying too hard might be a...

Didn't watch the video FYI. Easy to say they'd choose extinction when there's a lot of options, but if every single man on the planet was a beta there would still be plenty of reproduction occurring. Women, like anyone else will compare their own experiences, meaning what's considered an alpha...

I found RSD (like 10 years ago) to be more useful than anyone else I came across. Nothing has been more useful to me as practice and learning from experience though. They might seem complicated, but all they're really doing is fvcking around to see what happens. This is actually way more...

That's not orbit, that's just women not even bothering to go unfollow you, following someone means nothing for them. They technically follow you, but in reality they barely pay attention to you or the countless other insignificants she still technically follows. I'm usually just as lazy, I...

Sounds like your only option is to move somewhere else where nobody knows you.

@anour you can stop tagging everyone, if they're interested they'll see your thread, if they're not they'll still see your thread and just ignore it.

Looks like you know what to do already. Stop using the apps and do it the old fashioned way instead.

I can't remember the last time a stranger gave me a compliment, but I do remember that one time years ago a cashier told me I smelled really good. I remember it because I was just having some deodorant under my arms, that's it. It perplexed me that she was able to smell it at all from behind the...

If someone ever takes a closer look at the IP logs it will be immediately obvious that a VPN/proxy was used. Might raise enough suspicion to cause problems or they could just ban the use of a VPN for logging in to company resources. I'm just saying it's not risk free if their IT department knows...