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    How To Identify Borderline Personality?

    Relevant details first. My mother has BPD. It didn't directly affect me until her last boyfriend (not my father) finally left for good after 10 years together and she was WAY past the wall. Me experiencing the full effect of a BPD woman happened in a relatively short window of about a year...
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    Let's Be Real Here Pt.4 - "GAME" alone cannot create physical attraction

    I'm Norwegian and live in Norway, so that's a bit of an advantage... Good women aren't that rare here, both in terms of looks and personality. If this forum is anything to go by they're like unicorns over in the US.
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    Let's Be Real Here Pt.4 - "GAME" alone cannot create physical attraction

    This is true. If a woman has a minimum looks threshold and you're below it, no amount of talk and behavior can change that. I'm not one of those guys who believe game is a wonderful magic that can persuade any woman, it's not. It is necessary though. She does point this out in a way, looks got...
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    Let's Be Real Here Pt.4 - "GAME" alone cannot create physical attraction

    This I agree with, but that's not how I think about game. Personally I internalized it (or the parts that worked) to a point I am the game. There's nothing disingenuous to pick up on anymore because this is how I am now and I like it. I am nothing like a PUA, their methods are crude and make me...
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    Let's Be Real Here Pt.4 - "GAME" alone cannot create physical attraction

    Sounds like some boring ass women if you ask me...
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    Let's Be Real Here Pt.4 - "GAME" alone cannot create physical attraction

    I'm just gonna say that the one thing that changed everything for me was game, nothing else changed. I went from barely any interest from women to getting relatively easy lays, just by figuring out which buttons to press. I read all the time here about how looks and such is so damn important...
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    Solutions for 7 year LTR with 2 kids on the rocks - she doesn't know how she feels about me

    If she really is stressed/depressed about everything going on then taking her mind off it all for a moment could help a little, important not to bring up anything about her feelings, just try to bring her into the moment. Having a boundary is wise. Many guys would just keep holding onto hope...
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    Solutions for 7 year LTR with 2 kids on the rocks - she doesn't know how she feels about me

    In my mind there is no such thing. If she doesn't know then she isn't in love. To me this seems like she's buying time to organize leaving you.
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    This is how she filters men.

    I love it when the trash learns to take itself out, I would feel blessed to be rejected by someone such as her. The bullet dodging you, all by itself.
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    Extreme jealosuy

    Sooo, you just like playing with fire? She sounds absolutely insane and you're not sane for staying with her. I wouldn't give a damn about her baggage if it's this bad...
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    How do men in LTR’s cope

    I just bothered to watch 10 mins, but I couldn't agree more with this guy. Very relatable.
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    Redefining the definition of the power of " the female box"

    If that was true there would be way more male prostitutes, turns out that selling d!ck to women isn't as easy as selling pvssy to men. You may not be so much under the influence of pvssy, but make no mistake, it's not the norm.
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    How do men in LTR’s cope

    So, I've been in a relationship for 8 years now, married half that time. Attraction just occurs, that never goes away I think. So how do I cope? Well, what I have cannot be easily or quickly replaced and I really appreciate what I have. A deep level of intimacy, trust and companionship built...
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    Best Method To Cold Approach?

    Exactly. I just think option #2 is unrefined and won't do for women who want to see what kind of guy you are before giving you too much hope. It's just a defence against disrespectful and abusive men. Some men don't take no for an answer, some are downright nasty, some turn into stalkers. I can...
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    Best Method To Cold Approach?

    Somewhere in between. Option #1 is to go from a platonic conversation to suddenly showing other types of interest, it can be perceived uncomfortable when you take such a sudden turn and they might reject you on that. Option #2 is a more efficient option in that it doesn't waste unnecessary...
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    Approach Anxiety Program

    Then I suggest you keep doing that.
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    Here's how to approach women in bikinis on the beach.

    I said at least some, not every one... It was far from obvious that your thread was a reply to another thread I haven't even looked at.
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    How to coffee...

    Nespresso if I'm lazy, it tastes like cereal, but it's tolerable if I just need a caffeine hit. Most of the time it's V60. Grind my own beans, I buy the good stuff that's freshly roasted. So simple and cheap equipment, yet so good coffee.
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    do women complain a lot while having sex? is it normal?

    Were these straight women? If so, most of them probably find it gross and prefer more vanilla style sex. I imagine people who are gay or bi are on average way more open to these more unusual/taboo sex acts than the average straight person. Mind that I say "on average", there's exceptions...
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    Here's how to approach women in bikinis on the beach.

    The vast majority of guys on this forum would prefer if those conversations eventually resulted in sex and/or relationship. Any idiot can can plainly converse with a woman for a minute or two. If your approach strategy eventually resulted in sex with at least some of these women, then we're...
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