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I don't care about closing low interest women, that's the difference between you and me. It's not worth the time and effort, nor is it worth sacrificing your dignity to try.

Confidence permeates life much more than bravery. What I mean is bravery involves specific acts of courage. It's impressive, but it's an infrequent event by comparison. Confidence on the other hand is present in just about every form of interaction. Social prowess and charisma all stem from...

Can't say I agree with this. My theory is that historically only upper class women could afford to spend money on high heels to acquire the luxury of appearing taller and more prominent. High heels are not really practical, rather an added luxury. So today when you see a girl in high heels...

You can pick up girls doing almost anything, that doesn't mean you can't improve

Exactly. This thread is a reminder that you should only concern yourself with girls who are legit interested in you. This one did not seem to be, so it doesn't matter if the OP could have done this or that to change the outcome. He did good enough, she was the problem. It's a numbers game...

You're right my bad, but then this whole example thing is pretty mute. She was the problem. Instead of coming of with specific examples to circumvent her as the problem, don't sweat it and just move on. Ok so on the topic on improving game, your first example is bad and definitely worse than...

The OP never lost frame. He could have played her better, but he didn't lose frame. People need to stop blaming the OP for the outcome here. If it's anyone's "fault", it's hers. She threw the tantrum and instigated drama over nothing. It's like arguing how he could have avoided an oncoming...

I don't know why you say this is really good. It's pretty bad actually. One date and she's so invested that she's taking herself off the market? Right. I'm calling it right now. This girl is clingy, immature, and has little to no other options. Not much sport in banging such a girl, and...

So you completely betrayed someone, and now you're concerned they think poorly of you? Umm ya, no sh*t. How about not stabbing people in the back you care about?

Ask her out to do something with you at a specific time. If she declines with no type of counter, then don't even waste time going to her birthday.

So much context missing but I'll highlight why I think you didn't hear back from her, 1) She likely didn't have high interest to begin with. You were prob nervous when you got her number and she sensed desperation. 2) You texted and called her the same day. If she didn't already think you...

I feel like sending a **** pick works if the girl considers you higher value to begin with. In which case, yeah it might get to the point, but you could have done just about anything. Then again I don't see the sport in going after girls who are a point or two below me it's like shooting fish...

OP is free to change his mind. When she acted like an unreasonable brat and canceled I'm guessing he indeed lost interest in her. You can claim it's an ego defense, and maybe in the case of the OP it was who knows for sure, but when you don't have outcome dependence it's called just having...

This is all written from the perspective that the OP lost because he didn't go on the date. She took her ball and went home, and now the OP lost. Is that right? As if she is the prize. A guy's end goal should not be to have sex no matter what. And in reality, the OP may have actually come...

The the risk might not be worth the reward as El Payaso said. I suspect a lot of guys here are also interested in LTRs too, sending d*ck picks is not really conducive to that. But otherwise, if you have a good body I like Who Dares suggestion, send an enticing pic showing yours abs and bulge...

The person you were responding just answered this question. It's literally at the very top of his post that you yourself quoted. And the person above that answered the very same question too. Are you just posting over and over until you get a response you want?

I don't understand the people saying he shouldn't have nexted her so soon 1) She umm.. nexted herself lol 2) OP doesn't even seem interested in f*cking her anymore. I wouldn't be either

He wasn't even saving anyone, just chasing a guy who was already leaving. He knew the guy had a gun, all he had to do was get the license plate and then help the woman. But no, he had to live out his dream of being an action hero and try to use his gun. I respect his balls, but god damn what...

Bro... you f*cked up bad. The fact you even cared about a female calling you is whack to begin with. Expecting her to apologize for calling 30 minutes "late" is beyond weak. You have a lot of learning to do.

It seems to me she was just trying to extract information to determine value. The OP told her "Pretty good, but pretty busy. I'll see you tonight." Her response? "Where do you work?" lol. No small talk, straight to the point. OP was a bit rude when he shut down her question with just "See...