Girl invites me to her birthday should I go or will I be friend zoned ?

Thechamp

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Girl invites me to her birthday should I go or will I be friendzoned ?
 

El Payaso

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Depends. We need more context. Have you fvcked her already? Is she a long time friend or someone you just met? Is she someone you recently started dating? etc
 

Thechamp

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Facebook friend Latley she's been asking me what I'm up too , so not sure how to take it.
 

Yewki

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Facebook friend Latley she's been asking me what I'm up too , so not sure how to take it.
Ask her out to do something with you at a specific time. If she declines with no type of counter, then don't even waste time going to her birthday.
 

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As a general rule I wouldnt go, going to a place surrounded from her friends judging you, her orbiters fighting for her attention and trying to sabotage you while you stand there alone with no backup or friends.

Thanks but I pass on such things.

I remember once when a girl invited me to a party with her friends and thankfully I didnt go, saw the pictures on facebook 3 days later and it was her, her two female friends and about a dozen of guys clearly fighting for a piece of cake in every picture.

Downgraded her from potential date to potential fvck buddy same day just because she tought I was orbiter material, no resources invested in her at all any more.
 
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