You guys were a thing for what, 24 hours? This is just a case of a sl*t getting around. High five your friend and move on.
Hopefully your friend doesn't get into a LTR with her though that could be awkward
Bigger issue is the OP let two women live with him rent free... he was angry they went out and saw other guys, as if paying rent meant he was in an exclusive relationship with them
Agree with the OP. On top of this, another factor to consider is lack of context. No matter how much you write about a situation or problem on here, there's always details left out and distorted. For example you can't possibly describe all the emotions, reactions, body language, vibe and...
This is not a good look. Next time just get the number when you meet the girl. Adding her on FB and chatting her up suggests you don't have many other options and are too scared to go for what you want in person.
Still chatting on FB... you should have already gone for the number when you...
Respond with interest in what she's saying just invest less and less in the conversation as it goes on. Think of it like an echo chamber. If she comes at you with interest, echo it back. But if she continues, echo it back quieter. Delay your response, be brief. The common mistake by guys is...
More important than understanding you can't win them all
Is understanding you shouldn't win them all
You don't wan't a lot of the girls that are out there. At least I hope
I don't understand how you have 875 posts, yet your texting has such basic fundamental mistakes and you fail to realize you care entirely way too much about this one girl.
It's like if you went into a calculus class and then asked how to do basic arithmetic. How does this happen? I'm...
Stop being mad for a sec, it's not helping anyone. You see, the key to getting someone to acknowledge their mistake, is really quite simple. You just don't let them change the subject. Let's go back, before it started getting personal for you,
I'll walk you through this. You can start by...
By "a lot more money" do you happen to mean you have no job and are broke?
Either way, stop trying to swindle money out of your plate. Get a basic part time job if you need to.
I guarantee you, if you feel disgusted while talking to people, they 100% pick up on it. This is why they're turned off. If they don't hear it in your voice, they observe it.
90%+ of communication is nonverbal.
The solution? Talk about things that are actually on your mind, things that you...
You side stepped your original point and ignored my rebuttal to it. Would you like to try again? I can quote the discussion if you need help.
As for the OP's case, if you think it's all on the OP and the girl was not low interest or disrespectful... that says a lot. Also I'm sorry but I...
Let me help you out here as you seem to be struggling,
Only those who are thirsty for sex, and who pedestalize women for it, will concern themselves with "closing" a girl who is disrespectful and low interest.
Men objectify women and vice versa because it's a part of life. It's basic biology to want to mate with the most physically healthy and fit (aka "sexy") partner. Instead of trying to justify being fat and lazy, they should... I don't know, get healthy? lol
I never in a million years would...
I tell you what, go lift get your diet under control and get in the best shape of your life. Then come back here in a few months and let us know about all the positive changes in your life.
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