Why doesn't she replie? - Plate

[TheGambino]

I wrote a thread earlier about this girl last week.

Met her at a club. Everything went good, attraction was there, interest level, all by all the evening went smooth. Danced, build rapport, kino'd, had fun, didn't appear needy. Ended with a number close and we made out. Details in my last thread!

Had some chit chat with her this weekend by text, nothing much, keeping that simple and short.

Today's textconvo:

22:20
Me: Hey *name,
Me: Everything aight? What are you upto?
Her: Hey
Her: Yes I'm good and you?
Her: Im watching tv home and you?
Me: Im good too, on my way home from the gym.
Me: Let's grab drinks this week!
Her: Yes sure, when?
Me: Thursday or fridaynight?

00:12 no reaction from her...

Why do girls do this ****? And I see some bullsh1t coming from her when shes gonna text.. Any thoughts boys?

 

[dustmuffin]

Ask her what her schedule is like.....She comes up with the days and you pick.....This works well on first dates.

She isnt a plate...you havent fuc ked yet.

 

[Yewki]

Any thoughts boys?

I don't understand how you have 875 posts, yet your texting has such basic fundamental mistakes and you fail to realize you care entirely way too much about this one girl.

It's like if you went into a calculus class and then asked how to do basic arithmetic. How does this happen? I'm serious. I'm pretty sure you've given solid advise in the past, but when it comes to your own problems you seem to forget everything?

 

[TheGambino]

I don't understand how you have 875 posts, yet your texting has such basic fundamental mistakes and you fail to realize you care entirely way too much about this one girl.

It's like if you went into a calculus class and then asked how to do basic arithmetic. How does this happen? I'm serious. I'm pretty sure you've given solid advise in the past, but when it comes to your own problems you seem to forget everything?

I am a **** texter. That's why I only use it to set up dates. I dont forget everything I just want to have your opinions... Theres nothing much about texting in the bible, and I know it's my weak point in the game.

 

[TheGambino]

Giving advice to a Beta is pointless.
It only encourages them to keep asking more questions. Then it never ends.

Betas must be forced to hit rock bottom. Then, and only then, can they pick their own d @ m n selves up and make necessary changes.

Life. And life experiences alone. Are the best teacher.

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I answered your question, but you probably won't use it. You'll just keep searching for the one answer that makes you feel better about yourself.

Im no beta nerd. I f8cked around a 100 different girls in my life. I turf it for fun. Im just out of shape, out of the game right now for a couple of months due several sh1t that happened.

You can't judge me as a beta on one thread. Im just lacking at the moment and I'm man enough to admit that. Everything I posted on this forum was 100% truth, always. And the good thing about this forum is that everyone was positive and supportive on this forum. Now people like you come around this forum for a month or two and think they can judge people as beta when they never even met them lol. They read some articles and think they are DJ's and alpha males when they don't even dare to approach a girl outside. Get out of here..

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Give it some time or delete her number. I met a few chicks this weekend got a number from a HB5 who wanted to dance to some salsa music and I declined, she came back 20 minutes later and was like you sure? I was like yup I hate spanish music, she was like "well just stand there and i'll grind on you" I was like not here, let's do a private dance session. (I went for the kill since she came up to me 2-3 times and was thirsty) she was like we will have to do that, I said cool let me grab your number, got it saved it went home, hit her up the next day to "hangout" she said she was down.....I said cool i'll be around at 11, 11:45 I texted here "you ready?" She didn't respond that night or Sunday or any time today, so what did I do with her number? Deleted it! It felt so good and empowering! I'm the prize impress me, I think the X factor was she knew one of the girls I smashed from the same place, and she was staying with her, probably got in her ear and said something, don't care though

 

[Fugitive]

When you said drinks and she said when you should have come back at her like when are YOU free.

Sometimes a chick will not reply as she needs to check her schedule or needs to think about dumb sh*t like do i have an outfit for Thursday. Other times a chick will play games and deliberately not reply to see if she can turn you into a desperate beta. Time will tell you which it is but for now sit tight and don't message her again.

 

[JohnChops]

Don't use exclamation points.

I also like to say, "let's grab drinks, when are you free?" Or "what's your schedule for the week". Then just pick a day you are also free and boom. Easy. It ain't rocket science.

Also, don't care about why she didn't text back, watse of time. You cannot control what other people do, only what you do.

Please do not double text her either.

 

[JohnChops]

There's no right or wrong way to ask a girl out. If she's interested, the answer will be Yes. Period. End of story.

Just had a girl over text start to tell me about her day. I cut her off and said "I'm sure it was great, but you have to agree to have the best night of your life...or drinks, with me first."

Her: You're a smooth talker aren't you?

Me: When I see something I like...yes. I'll pick you up Thursday at 7:45.

Her:

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Another nugget...it's always better to apologize after the fact than it is to ask for permission before it.

thats it man. I believe this too. If you have to ask a girl out in a certain way, just to get a wishy washy answer, she isn't interested. I'll go as far to say you can do whatever you want and get laid if the girl is interested in you.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Why do girls do this ****?

What would you do if you met some girl at a club. She seemed hot. Then she texted you, and said she was wearing some special clothes, that made her look 200 lbs skinnier than she really was . (This is just a metaphorical example, don't whine about the irrationality if it).

What would YOU DO when you found out the girl you THOUGHT was a hot girl was really a LAND WHALE?

That's why girls flake. Easy to blame the girl, but you are DIFFERENT to her when you ask that silly little boy question - "Friday or Saturday?"

This indicates you aren't sure, and you want HER TO CHOOSE.

Seems small, trivial.

But to a girl it's JUST AS DRAMATIC A CHANGE as if a hottie turned into a land whale.

What would you do ? Go out with her because the gods of obligation mandate you ALWAYS keep your attraction for a girl because you HAD IT ONCE?

No. You would not.

And neither would she.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I wrote a thread earlier about this girl last week.

Met her at a club. Everything went good, attraction was there, interest level, all by all the evening went smooth. Danced, build rapport, kino'd, had fun, didn't appear needy. Ended with a number close and we made out. Details in my last thread!

Had some chit chat with her this weekend by text, nothing much, keeping that simple and short.

Today's textconvo:

22:20
Me: Hey *name,
Me: Everything aight? What are you upto?
Her: Hey
Her: Yes I'm good and you?
Her: Im watching tv home and you?
Me: Im good too, on my way home from the gym.
Me: Let's grab drinks this week!
Her: Yes sure, when?
Me: Thursday or fridaynight?

00:12 no reaction from her...

Why do girls do this ****? And I see some bullsh1t coming from her when shes gonna text.. Any thoughts boys?

1) She isn't a "plate". A plate is someone you are regularly fvcking. She is some random chick you haven't even been on a date with at this point yet. You have been here way too long to not know proper terminology.

2) Your texting is terrible. Boring, lame, nothing to get her excited to meet you.

3) You did however do a good job not beating around the bush and asking her out for drinks.

 

[nismo-4]

An interested woman will make time for you. Ghost when asked out? Big red flag.

 

[TheGambino]

she replied, date is set.