got the number, arranged the date - advice from here!

bobafatt

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Met this beautiful chick the other weekend got her number, she appeared to show intrest playing with her hair and laughing. Messaged her a day later and got into a good conversation but kept it brief.

I have been busy with work and been on a few other dates - she has initated contact every time and wants to keep the conversation going. I have arranged a date now for next tuesday due to work and other commitments.

My question is from here on then if she does contact how do i keep it brief without coming across like im not interested?
 

MrWood

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next Tuesday, after the weekend?
beautiful chick you say?

something like..
"im going home after xyz and was going to eat, we could cook dinner together and watch a bad movie, but you would need to behave... ok?, we got a date Tuesday"
 

Yewki

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My question is from here on then if she does contact how do i keep it brief without coming across like im not interested?
Respond with interest in what she's saying just invest less and less in the conversation as it goes on. Think of it like an echo chamber. If she comes at you with interest, echo it back. But if she continues, echo it back quieter. Delay your response, be brief. The common mistake by guys is to reciprocate every time she responds... no you want her to believe you're concerned with other things. That she's not a high priority.
 
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