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Jeez guys, it was just a first date for crying out loud. I'm not the type of guy just to impose / force my will on kissing her straight of the bat. She's a decent gal, I'm a decent guy. We really have a very different culture from you guys. I didn't really think it would've been appropriate...

Had my coffee date this morning and it went really well. All the classic signs were there, shoulders pointing towards me, mimicking body posture, playing with her ear ring and her hair, if I touched my mouth, she'd do the same and to top it off, she gave me a huge hug from her side when we...

Hi guys, This might probably come off sounding daft, but I just wanted to verify a couple of basics with you guys about a girl I met recently. I met her through my church and we have support group gatherings for people of a similar age every week. Since I've met her for the first time, I...

Guys, sorry to be reviving this thread of mine, but I thought it would be better to post here than to make a complete new thread. Yesterday, it's been 2 months since I've been chatting with the girl who I spoke of in my original post in this thread and we still haven't met. Now, a lot of you I...

Hi guys, Whenever I'm in dire need of some serious advice when it comes to women, I always find myself coming back to this forum. The previous occasions I've had some good advice and a fair amount of criticism, but I suppose that's normal, given that we state our problems here and seek advice...

Alright, I get what you're saying but I'll have a boatload of work to do then... however, we spoke earlier tonight and the following transpired. We went to the movies on Friday afternoon as her ex was coming into town at bout 7pm. And she said we'll speak again on Sunday evening and she told me...

Mmmmm, you really she'll give me enough to pull her back ? First bit of positive news I've heard from anyone here. Being hard to get is tough, but I won't see her for the next 2 days, will wait for her to initiate contact, let her miss me... she does tell me, that she thinks about me, lots, so...

Man, this thread of mine got lots of replies since I last checked here. Lots of things have happened, but some interesting things. About 3 days ago, after I got back from holiday, she told me that she just wants to be friends for now and let us get to know each other more better than we have had...

I will respond to slickster and WC2 as soon as get back from gym, didn't see you guys replied in the mean time.

Thanks guys for the responses, you did give me some good advice. @ window: Your advice sounds good, but its really risky for me in the sense that if I tell her that I'm going to see other girls, I would just make her decision so easy for her, she'll go back to him asap. However, what I...

Howzit guys, Been a while since I've posted here but this round I have a delicate situation at hand and I don't know how to solve this "problem". I met a girl online via a dating site and we really hit it off well. Its now more than a month and we really have spent a lot of time together and...

Hey guys, Some of you might remember from about 2 months ago when I posted a thread entitled "Advice needed on what to do next" where some of you guys really gave me good advice on what to do with the chick that I had in that thread.Well, she was so busy with her studies, that I eventually gave...

FFS, I'm in a rut, sent her a text more than 24hours ago and still haven't heard anything from her...sigh... I'm soo pissed off, and negative, that I don't know what to think or what to do anymore. Its possible that she could just be really busy, or she could be playing hard to get, or she...

Soz my bad, accidently included that part. Ok, only action. full stop. ;)

TheDoctor thank you for responding to my post in a decent way. Not that the other guys didn't, I can't see that the majority of them have been members here for a long time and speak from great experience. I'll grow a pair in the next 36 hours and like the Nike slogan says: "Just Do it!" I'll...

@speed_dawg Sorry if I over analyzed what you said, I know I also said some harsh things to you, therefore I apologize. Thanks for your advice will also keep it in mind and apply it. @Mr.Me After your post, I'm left speechless don't know what to say, almost to scared to post anything before you...

Sheesh... if I was a punching bag you guys wouldve really beat the crap out of me that's for sure. Some harsh criticism, and generally I don't like criticism, but in essence I was the one that came here looking for advice. @GuanYu She hasn't texted nor called me, I was the one that initiated...

I did it because I'm attracted to her and I wanted to show her that I'm a decent guy, and I could make a real good impression on her the first time. Now I know NewMan said, that being nice and doing things for a girl won't get me the girl, and I realise that. Judging by the responses I get from...

First off, Thanks for the reply. Secondly, you don't know me, I'm not the type of guy that kisses a girl on the first date, that to me would've scared her off... but I guess its 50/50. You canadian and american guys have a different way of doing things, that's for sure. Thirdly, the whole...

Hey guys, I don't frequently visit these forums, last year I did make a couple of posts with regards to a girl that I met at my gym, but nothing ever came of that, and I ended up just being friends with her. Its a new year, and I have a new girl in my sights and would like some advice or...