Alright, I get what you're saying but I'll have a boatload of work to do then... however, we spoke earlier tonight and the following transpired.
We went to the movies on Friday afternoon as her ex was coming into town at bout 7pm. And she said we'll speak again on Sunday evening and she told me I could contact her and said vice versa to her as well. So being the good guy out of respect (its just the way I am, sorry) I sent her a text message saturday evening, stating hope she is ok, thinking of her and that she had a fab day.
Come sunday morning, when I get back from church, I see she sent me a message back saying she's fine and she is also thinking of me, and sorry for replying so late, she misplaced her phone. Sunday evening (tonight) arrives and we chat on Skype for a bit. I ask her again, how was her weekend and she's like :" It was amazingly good" "fantastic" etc and I was like.. okay.. then she tunes me I was surprisingly quiet the weekend, and then I explained to her why. She said she isn't angry but just disappointed in me, cause she likes when I text her... and I was like WTF... I just thought I did good, giving her the majority of the day (saturday) so that she can do what she wants and now she's making me feel guilty cause I didn't text her.. what the F does she want then ?? And WHY do women have to be so fscking cryptic ??
The majority of you will probably laugh at me, but I'm just too kind hearted to just give a flying F about the situation. And sure, I have LOTS to learn about women, have never had a seriously relationship with one before either, just a casual fling, and yes I am a AFC.
What I don't understand, why the hell does she make me feel guilty bout it ? She told me she'll text me when she goes to bed, and she did do it, saying once again, she thinks about me. I have reached boiling point with regards to reading her signals. Perhaps its her period (which starts tomorrow btw) that is affecting her to act so bloody weird..who knows.
I really do enjoy spending time with her, chatting with her and I'm pretty sure she does too with regards to me, but somewhere something has got to give. I'm in a slump, I felt so fking pissed off with myself that she was disappointed in me for not texting her and apologising for it twice, she also didn't like the fact that I constantly do it. She told me she believes me the first time round when I explain something and I don't have to doubt her... and this also made me feel like a complete douche bag.
I need a serious attitude adjustment, but I dont have reasons for her actions, its just weird she is acting this way.. She also doesn't say a word about what transpired with the ex. If something happened that was worthy of note she would have told me, but they aren't back together thats for sure. Maybe she actually had a shyte weekend and now she wants to take it out on me for not texting her ?
But yeah, I don't know what should my next angle of attack be, we'll probably hook up for sexy time (like Borat would say) later this week. I just need to get a grip on things but keep her interested in me, how I'm going to do this, I really don't know, like I said I don't have any long term relationship experience and I'm a complete noob when it comes to reading women.
Any non sarcastic comments would be appreciated.
