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    Have you ever had a girl pay for your drinks/food/whatever you did?

    No doubt. I'd say men should still always reach for their wallets on anything other than just drinks at the bar/club and small things.. Because it's chivalrous and chivalry is not a bad thing at all. It's just what we do.. how we roll, as alpha male men. Never expect her to pay for sht. If she...
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    Have you ever had a girl pay for your drinks/food/whatever you did?

    Yeah you're 100% Right. But don't ever forget there's many variables .. Ie: A girl might pay for the date.. and then never see you again just because she's not interested but wanted to let you off easy. It's happened to people I know Believe it or not alot of women who don't date too often and...
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    The Bold Move (Empirical Research)

    Good stuff man! This is how I am. I don't think it's about being bold (except the 1st one which sounds beyond bold.. borderline scary)... It's more or less about being confident and secure with yourself.. When you value yourself highly, you can react in ways to capture a girls interest, even if...
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    Have you ever had a girl pay for your drinks/food/whatever you did?

    All good replies so far. Yeah, I mean I've had it happen tons of times.. It's nothing new to me. But, the ones that are kinda "whats she trying to do?" are the girls who do it every single time consecutively.. It's almost like they look for any cues that we're done for the night.. and suddenly...
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    Have you ever had a girl pay for your drinks/food/whatever you did?

    At first, reading your first sentence, I was like whoa what is this guy talking about but nah you're spot on with what you said there in the middle. As far as having too much empathy, you couldn't be more wrong xD. It's not about empathy for me.. It's about being the lead, feeling in control...
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    First date vday. Good idea?

    A good date is not prevalent to what day it lands on... A good date is a good date. Why not Vday? Let's say you don't take the chance you have now.. and she spends her VAlentine's with another guy.. Not only is he more likely to get the kat, but he has every advantage considering a woman's...
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    Have you ever had a girl pay for your drinks/food/whatever you did?

    I've had this happen quite a few times... Of course every time I would insist I'd pay or try to force her to take the money for it afterwards.. But always got the "no no its fine its fine" .. etc I've honestly felt pretty guilty at times.. Considering some girls I've messed around with would do...
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    That awkward moment when a guy you know starts acting needy like a *****

    Haha I think I still have a ways to go before really going for something like that. I was told I should be a lifestyle coach before but it's not something I want to jump into just yet.. Rather, If I could ease into it by coaching people who I see could really use it, then I can build a portfolio...
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    That awkward moment when a guy you know starts acting needy like a *****

    Oh, I'm well aware. I just spoke to him from time to time because he's got some good business connections and things like that and he was basically a blank mold. Coulda really shaped him up to a stand up individual.. and had fun with it too but deleted his number after all that weird emotional...
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    That awkward moment when a guy you know starts acting needy like a *****

    Nah man, you're completely wrong. Notice why he said "thanks for being there" in the end.. It's because me, being a guy who's confident and gets tons of women.. Tried my best to help him change his life.. I was the guy wh got him weed when he didn't know where to get it.. I was the one who took...
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    That awkward moment when a guy you know starts acting needy like a *****

    Well said brother.. Some people are okay with settling for less in life. They deserve nothing more than what they have or the lack thereof, because of their attitudes toward life. No one should expect anything out of life without putting effort in. Yeah man. I can't help but to try to help...
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    Gifts & Gifting

    Only YOU know the type of rapport and connection you have with the girl. Only YOU know the type of personality she has.. It's hard to give advice in these type of situations to be honest man.. 6 months in.. is a pretty long time. You'll be alright man. It's not a chess game.. I think...
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    That awkward moment when a guy you know starts acting needy like a *****

    I have a friend whos about 31 yrs old.. he doesn't get no puss.. He's pretty much a hermit when he's not going to the club or bars. stays inside and plays video games.. I only met him back when I used to smoke weed, through a mutual friend.. and didn't really consider him a close friend.. but...
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    I feel like tinder is a waste of time

    I do gotta say though @latino158 , that girl is very attractive.. so why defeat yourself before you even try? If you're already on it, go for it.. There's nothing worse than someone who gives up without even trying. Just because I don't advocate using Tinder, doesn't mean, you can't pickup...
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    I feel like tinder is a waste of time

    I don't use tinder. I often let my guys who ask me about Tinder know that it's not the best place to meet women since it's very superficial. Girls like Tinder because its a good way to have tens to hundreds of guys court them... Think of the show "The Bachelorette". You're pitting yourself...
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    What did you find to be the best sources to learn game and improve yourself?

    Stuff came to me in natural progression. I had written a whole thing about it in this message just before deleting it.. Because I didn't want to really toot my own horn. But the gist of it is, I found myself flirting with girls super super early on and it just naturally progressed. I was a chick...
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    Random girl messages me on FB

    Dude, grow some balls and take a chance. The fk is wrong with you?"Muster up the courage".. What the ??? This is simple chit man! SHe messaged you first too? Got dam... Sorry a bit irritated. I need to realize not everyone is the same.. lol If you got a skype get at me ASAP. I'll try my best...
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    How to deal with this girl after No Contact?

    How do you deal with her? You don't. You got nothing with her dude. That's just the reality of the situation. Work on improving yourself as a man first, and then you'll have no problem moving further with girls in the future. Make good use of the resources on sosuave.com and our Don Juan...
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    Havent heard from her in a week, is she waiting on me?

    1) 85% of the time it means that she's already got a guy or guy's she prioritizes over you.. Meaning you're an option, but a bit undervalued as opposed to the other guys she has on circuit. 2 )10% Could be that you are her most valued guy she has contact with.. But, she's busy enough that she...
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    How to set the frame for casual sex?

    To add on to what @old_skoolr said, 1) Kiss her early on.. Throw the tongue in. There's no time for pecking. 2) Be more playful.. more fun convo, no sensitive convo (dont talk about her past, her family, all that bull****,.. Less trying to get to know her, more touchy, feely) 3) Invite her at...
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