The Bold Move (Empirical Research)

[bigneil]

In the past 24 hours I have made several bold moves on female prospects and I will share examples:

1) Last night I had a third date with a real beauty, but this was following a 24 day lapse and her flaking once. After watching most of a movie together, I was massaging her shoulders. But then I just stood up, grabbed her by the roots of her hair and dragged her about 100 feet to my bedroom (which she had never seen despite that being her second visit). I threw her in bed and she didn't call the police or anything. In fact, we had our best moments afterward.

2) Tonight, because she was invading my space and smiling, I asked a favorite waitress to go to dinner on Valentine's Day and she said "No". I didn't say a word but held eye contact. Then she said "I don't want to fall in love right now". I remained stoic. Then she said "So, what do you do for a living?"

3) When a dancer who I just met (age 22, and as hot as every girl in the room combined) asked me how she looked on stage I replied "You mean just now? .... Will you marry me?" and she said yes, that she "would be honored". For the rest of the evening she referred to me as her fiance.

4) When another girl turned me down for a date I replied "It's only a matter of time before you fall in love with me". She laughed about that for about 5 minutes but kept holding eye contact. Somehow it turned back into a conversation about when we could get together.

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The theme is, you want to try making a move that is bold enough that you might be rejected forever, in order to force her hand. Often you find you actually make significant progress toward the end game. And why not have women who don't reciprocate reject you forever? This process filters the pool of prospects.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Last night, my boy @PrettyBoyAJ was chatting with a girl at the lounge. She was laughing at something he said, turned away to grab her phone, and AJ grabbed her face tightly and stared into her eyes. Her eyes widened and she was completely surprised. Putt

Did he kiss her?

 

[Skyline]

I was actually just thinking about this lately.

Bold moves of affection via physical escalation and eye contact seem to work more than words ever could.

 

[RangerMIke]

Yea.... I like doing this, and do when I'm getting too much BS resistance. I figure I'm going to make something happen or burn down the bridge.

 

[JohnChops]

Atom smasher had a great post about this, I still have it saved from awhile back.

It is true, fortune favors the bold.

My bold statements are like neg hits for hottee girls and more positive for girls who are self conscious.

For example if a girl asks me if something looks good and she is one of those "hot" girls I'll tell her she looks like ****, with a devilish smirk on my face.

Much better than being overly affectionate by saying "oh you look gorgeous". There is a time and place for that but I like the negs better, more fun.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

Good stuff man! This is how I am. I don't think it's about being bold (except the 1st one which sounds beyond bold.. borderline scary)...

It's more or less about being confident and secure with yourself.. When you value yourself highly, you can react in ways to capture a girls interest, even if she's married, has a boyfriend or does not want to initially give you her number.. This is just Don Juan 101 stuff...

A general rule of thumb is.. what works for some, won't work for everyone. Do you, be you, do what fits your personality.. Don't force some **** that's really not you.

*Guys who are reading this.. Don't try #1.. for the sake of sanity.. There's better ways to go about it.. Ie: sweep a girl off her feet and carry her , throw her on the bed.. , fireman carry her while she kicks her feet , etc

 

[bigneil]

Regarding #1, she was away for the past week (on some exotic island and I didn't ask for details), but the girl whose hair I pulled initiated on Valentine's day and agreed to get a hotel with me next week.

That was the 4th girl this year whose hair I pulled. Every girl was up for a full body massage after.

It all started last spring when I spent the night in a hotel with a girl and didn't try anything (though I did carry her to bed) and the relationship stalled and ultimately failed. I never got over her. Also, spending the night with a girl and not having sex causes blue balls. So the next time I was in a hotel with her I pulled her hair instead. We at least got to second that night. I never saw her again, but still. Anyhow, I tried that with the next 3 girls in a row, so I'm 4 for 4 in dragging a girl to the bed by her hair. Two led to sex (though one we had already previously had sex). Start out with moving her only a few feet before you try long distance dragging. And obviously, if she says no in any way, you have to stop.

 

[salinechow]

I fu cking love this post. "Go big (neil) or go home" Im going to TRY to be more like this. I am so tired of the puzzy footing around the inevitable. Its like taking rollerblades when I have an Infiniti in the driveway. Im just glad you were bold enough to post.

 

[_sideways_]

I think big Neil might have some attractive features that gets him a pass. I mean, we all do....but all the hot azz he meets all the time, there's gotta be more to it than just good game.
Girls, young chicks, want good looks too. No amount of game is gonna win her over if dudd looks like Steve buscemi

 

[Yewki]

I feel like dragging someone by their hair a long distance is too close to "assault" for my liking. Probably not worth the risk to be "bold"... but the rest of the stuff was legit, good work on that.