Not to mention IOI's are super broad term. You can put off 1 IOI but if you're getting multiple IOI's then you know "oh she's not just asserting her confidence/experience to play .. but she's actually into me.."
I'm not one for PUA terms myself, but IOI's is just a good way to mention signs of...
I think you're thinking of it too much as some type of mechanism. It's a totally passive thing.. You're not holding up a magnifying glass looking for IOI's.. It's little things that you notice that tell you (for me, almost subconciously) to proceed.. to lean in for that kiss.. to grab her hand...
IOI's are all about interest/attraction/etc.. BUt IOI's are not permanent. You can do something to turn off a girl and those IOI's you experienced earlier can have no substance after that.
IOI's are signs for escalation.. You get enough IOI's, you know you can escalate without resistance...
I agree with @Baggio86 and @AllDay85 . You're seeking validation is all you're doing. When I'm done hanging out with a girl I naturally don't even text her for a couple days sometimes.. not even purposely..just don't think about it as much . live in the present.
Don't seek validation. Enjoy and...
I think @Last of the Alphas meant more in the sense that don't base your experience with a woman based off textbook "should do's" or "shouldn't do's".. If it feels right, why not? Why wait till she goes out with some other guy on V day and beats you on leaving a good impression on her...
Depends on how strong the connection is..
I've seen some serious dorks with decent looking girlfriends.. Do you think they worry how much they should contact their GIRLFRIEND? lol. The age gap you have isnt that hefty.
If you feel like you're smothering her, than thats prob not a good thing...
Haha. Hey man, you ever want to talk .. feel free to add me on skype. I'll pm you my skype.. Maybe I can offer some advice, guidance or just be there to help you kill this lengthy dry spell as soon as possible
I've been there before.. Had some rough times in other areas of life that kept me...
Not to be a **** but banged my latina milf plate today .. early 30's, ridiculous piece of ass.. and wetter than a slip and slide or a Saint Bernard.. the way she got ***** juices all over the fkin place.. I have no idea what she does but her libido is higher than mine got daym.
So I'm actually...
Good luck with what you got coming ... When you're in a circle with her family and getting ate alive by her pops.. and then standing in a hospital room waiting 8-12 hours staring at child birth happening live.. You'll have alot of think about ...
then you can think about "was it worth it?" when...
I'd say,
- Listen more than you talk.
- Be Assertive, Decisive and Prepared.
- Don't oversell yourself. Make them want to convince themselves why they need to buy into you.
Very good traits to have in any situation.
Straighten up your act.. Then you'll have no problem knowing how to find women, where to find women, and how to close , and how to KEEP plates.. Instead of going "bankrupt".
Your attitude right there says ALOT. Doesn't take much for an experienced person to see how you talk on this forum...
It's not about the environment.. Your superficial ideologies that you made very clear in your posts on here are what's most likely hurting you. I didn't have to guess to know that your plates don't stick around too long.
You talk alot of game on here but your repertoire doesn't match. Time to...
Women ignore simply because they are not interested in you the same way you are interested in them.
They have other guys taking their interest who they prioritize.. YOu are undervalued by the woman in question. Time to move on.
Why waste your damn time with a girl who isn't showing you clear...
Hey man, that's not fair to say that he's lying. Kinda harsh imo. I mean isn't everyone talking to "other women".. But talking doesn't get you too far.. actions do.
I think that's where our friend who thinks he has "elite game" is lacking.. Took him 3 dates just to grab her ass.. Unless his...
I don't think I had to dump any chick in many years. I would just stop giving them any attention and had their friends ask me "are you done with <name>?" and I'm like uhh didn't know we were going out . or "yeah i guess i just never told her"
I'm not one to be all formal in my breakups lol..
Give the 18 yr old my number, now you got half your problem solved .or give it to @KingofPuss .. Give the 13 yr old to @yungballa (young don juan in the making!) and then your problems are solved.
We'll take care of it ;)
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