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No idea about a chad in the picture, but she seems way too flaky for my taste. I know girls that will respond with similar enthusiasm, but they’ll actually, y’know - show up. Of course there’s girls that will lie to the moon and back (pressing even their own extensive future plans with you, but...

So this will perhaps be a bit of a narcissistic question, but I was thinking about - what is the potential impact on women who see that you’re willing/able to do adventurous things. Including physical activities. Most probably shown through social media. The example I’m thinking of is I’ve...

Because you feel anxious around the attractive person. Something to gain, something to lose.

Great, well you go find that girl and go get her. Just hold up that picture everywhere you go. Since that’s in reality the only girl you’ll ‘settle’ for.

Just go. No explanations or debate around it.

I would start looking at what beautiful women look like without makeup, and realize that this is a glamour shot. Hot celebrities all dolled up, suddenly look very ordinary in real life. Add in the perfect angle, lighting, having all the time in the world to get the pose right - she’s never going...

Hilarious because it’s true. Dave will only settle for the perfect imaginary girl. Unless her ears are slightly too big or something. Then it’s waiting for the next absolutely ‘perfect’ girl. It’s a merry-go-round of narcissism and hopeless questioning.

Mute her on instagram. Especially since you know you’ll regret deleting her. PS - Yes, this is something girls do. Great for them because you generally can’t ‘prove’ they are trying to get you jealous. But if it’s a bit unusual activity from them, then it’s probably accurate.

I don’t disagree. Not seeing what she’s doing is the best way of moving on. Any new info about her (good, bad, or neutral) will pull her back into your mind, back into your current reality. Even indirectly, such as I remember my mom giving info about my ex to me (and how she was pissing people...

Best not to lie about your age. Some girls will get finicky about it when you tell them, but they might accept it anyway after some thinking. Here is where I find how old you look actually prevails, rather than the number. I firmly believe that. Also, the younger the girl is, the more impactful...

Giving her complete distance with zero pressure from you is the best way you can ‘fix’ this situation. This includes not initiating contact with her in any way. You have to allow her the chance to come back to you on her own. Give her the chance of missing you, and missing what you guys had...

Force yourself to wait at least a week about the instagram thing. I suggest if you can stand not looking at her page, or if you can set it so her posts aren't visible (not sure how instagram works), then you might be fine. Some people can't resist looking however. Any sort of viewing on how...

Rejoining the NC thread, and restarting NC I had before. Nothing of any direct communication had happened (just indirect online) - but I've gone through some introspection. I don't really sense any sort of friendship based in reality, as I doubt either of us will actually reach out. And if she...

My personal experience is that dealing with girls with BFs is nothing more than a waste of time. They will flirt more aggressively and harder than those that are single... but I believe that’s because they have nothing to lose if the interaction goes sour. They always have their BF to fall back...

Yeah now that you mention it, they look kind of jacked. Going past the fit/toned stage, into the bodybuilder. Not my idea of a 9/10 really, even though generally they’re alright.

Great, well you go get em buddy. Otherwise, lament your own self imposed restrictions.

Lots of women live up to your standards? Doubtful, since you seem to reject yourself with every single woman in existence.

Just go. You're going to lose her over concerns about sniffles. Time to pull the trigger and get on this date with her. If it's really bad, you can make an idle comment about being sick while on the date. Then she's aware and can make a decision to reject physical contact or not. Hook up with...

"I'm sorry to hear that Plate #2. All the best". Don't replace it with her name either, keep it 'Plate #2' :D For real though, I can't think of what I'd say exactly - but something positive/understanding, wishing her the best. Not too long (one/two sentences). I'm sure one of the guys here can...

Figure it out. We can't psych analyze you. You've got to get over yourself (no offense).