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Seems like this thread is becoming bigdave's blog of fantasy women. Amongst the chatter/complaining about "I have money but no women like me. Except all the ones that I turn down because they don't look like this". Seriously self-fulfilling prophecy.

I’d say around 20 to 30 min travel time max is decent. If it starts getting further than that, it gets beyond the convenience factor for most people, and more into a planned trip every time you want to see each other. But some people make it work, and do manage to push past the distance...

Is she dumb as rocks? Is she annoying to talk with? Would you actually enjoy being around her? Sure she looks nice enough to bang, but there’s other factors to consider long term other than ‘loyalty’.

I’ll suggest that a website should not be affecting your mental state (especially to that seemingly degree). In regards to attitudes here, I’d take the advice and discussions here with a grain of salt. People have different personalities and things that work for them may not work for you...

I'll suggest that many girls with BFs tend to be more flirty than those that are single (in my experience). Especially the hot ones. I believe it's because they have something safe at home, so they'll reach out and have more fun, getting that high off of the flirtation. I'd take it as a...

I'm not going to write much, but you're clearly jumping from 0 to 60 on this. Try finding a woman you enjoy being with, you find attractive enough to ****, and just start spending more and more time with her. Focus on the having fun part (which doesn't necessarily focus on sex either, it's just...

True, I think this is the fairest response. Suffice it to say that she won't get a chance to do it again. I was actually hesitant to respond at first partly based on what old skoolr was saying (why post on social media for help? call or text someone for actual help), but I figured it wouldn't...

Hey all, So I've been coming across a situation. It's been infrequent, and for the vast majority (of men and women) I haven't seen this - but occasionally, I've been having women have disrespectful behaviour with me. Mostly in regards to respecting my time. I don't think it's necessarily on...

This. It makes no sense to waste your time being with someone that you feel ashamed of. That's quite the feeling that you'll have to consistently repress in order to do anything with her - and it's not necessarily going to improve as the date or dates go on. Presumably you'll grow closer and...

I’ve never seen a woman use the term ‘low value/high value’. That’s a phrase something this forum would use. Along with the ‘options’ focus. There’s a lot of direct focus on how first guy had none, while second guy had other women wanting to cheat on their bfs and husbands with him. These would...

I’m sure he’d find some imperfection somewhere (nose slightly too small or something) and go back to dreaming of filtered photos of Instagram girls.

To **** her.

Could not and would not recommend dating BPD’s myself. The whole time it feels like some sort of scam that they’re trying to pull on you. Like a used car salesman telling you exactly what you want to hear, in order for them to get what they want. They barely know you as a person (sometimes just...

I’m not concerned about exclusive attention.

Thanks guys. Yeah this one is slightly annoying since she’s the guide for the tour. She’s keen on doing her own thing, paying plenty of attention on a couple of the taken guys. Nothing crazy attractive about them (average, conservative, here with wife/gf. No muscle or anything like that). But...

Hey guys, quick question for you all. I think I have the answer already but want to double check. I’m on a trip currently and things were seemingly going fairly well with this one girl (nothing happened yet). Sharing drinks, food, lots of banter. However, at one point she started distancing...

Meh, most of the comments are laughing at her.

He’s a homeless person. As well as someone you don’t know (emphasis on this part). Disregard random people’s idle comments, as they have no possibility of understanding you. Just by virtue of them not knowing you. A man is not made purely by appearances either. Who cares what this random guy...

I understand the idea behind this, and this is something I’d normally advocate as well. But I have the feeling that she’s not going to really care while he’s languishing in the limbo zone of ‘Alright, I’m still technically in a relationship... I shouldn’t be macking on other girls’. And then...

Yep. I was hoping it wasn’t going to turn out this way, but looks like it’s ended up as generally predicted. Breaking up with her is going to have to be the option. There’s a clear zero prioritization from her about you. No concern about you, no movement towards a condition with you = it’s over...