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this post is old, we don’t even speak anymore. lesson learnt on my end. No harm no foul.

I let my animal show itself once in a while. I known as a pretty even keeled guy, so losing my cool surprises people. I can’t confirm how true this is but there are some biblical scholars who argue that “the meek shall inherit the earth” is taken out of context. They claim that meek means “he...

Oh for sure. The original post is about 3 years old.

Haha. The short version of the story is she dumped him. i was slated to visit her after that while in her country for business. She mentioned wanting to explore something. Had a family situation that prevented me from making the trip. Told her 2 weeks in advance and she flipped out. Without...

You’re well on your way.

I dunno man. In my experience there are a lot of good women out there. It depends on where you live too I guess and also where you’re looking. I don’t think a lot of ‘good’ women are out at bars or in clubs. They’re busy with work and you find them in service clubs, at church, etc basically...

I’m in no competition with a guy like that. When I see something like you described happening, I excuse myself. Eye contact and smile with the woman. “Really nice meeting you guys. Maybe we’ll catch up again sometime”. I leave and find someone else to talk to.

I’m inclined to disagree in part. Game, as in some secret knowledge or technique to woo women may very well be dead. The same women some may hope to run game on read forums like these and know these ‘secrets’. I don’t think forums are solely for venting either. There’s something powerful about...

Some good responses above imo. Transcendental meditation has helped tremendously with my anxiety over the last few months. I learnt the technique in my early 20s as a student (its way cheaper to learn as a student)and practiced it intermittently over the years. I picked it up again in March...

Indeed. Thank you.

Good question. I have thought about it. She says she doesn’t want to cheat on him down the road because it would break his heart but the sex is just not good at all. All I have is what she’s said and people can say anything. But yeah. I’ve pulled back on the advice giving and concern. They’ll...

If she wasn’t a friend I’d be laughing too, believe me. It’s really amazing to watch it play out. Watching her justify it to herself is really a sight to behold. But hey...it is what it is I guess. I gave her my two cents. Not much more I can do at this point.

Greetings guys I have a female friend who lives across the Atlantic from me. We’ve been friends for almost 15 years. She and I have admitted physical attraction. There is compatibility but I’ve deaded any talk of being more than friends because of distance. At one point she spoke of the idea of...

First of all be grateful that you came to realization at this point. As bad as things are now..they’ll be even worse a few years down the line if you were still asleep. My advice based on me thinking your situation is salvageable: Make a silent obligation to yourself to remain in your...

Some good advice has been offered but I have to add something. Please don’t sacrifice sleep. Especially when lifting...lack of sleep will affect your gains and can actually be quite counterproductive.

Always look at what they do. Not what they say. I was reminded of this recently. Always look at the actions. Cutting her off totally and getting on with your life is the only option in my opinion.

Wouldn’t say I’m with you on everything you typed here. I still believe in many things I always have. The difference is that I’ve examined these beliefs and still hold them because I see where they work for me and the kind of life I want...not because I’ve been spoon fed them and just moving on...

Thanks for the perspective, gentlemen. Salute.

Yeah. Understood. I guess I figured I’d have passed this stage already. I’ve been here for a few years now and thought I’d have been further ahead in my journey. I’ve definitely been guilty of slipping back into my old needy/seeking approval/not holding frame ways from time to time Alas. Back...