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    How to play long game?

    This is actually quite appropriate for me. I was in the U.K. And Europe Last year and met two women. One originally from Denmark who lives in London. We spent a night together and she's coming to see me this summer. I've noticed the texting is increasing leading up to her visit. The second I...
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    What Should I Do? This is consuming me! :(

    . She has said, that this situation frustrates her as I'm the perfect guy & we had the best dates but she needs to feel more. Desire cannot be negotiated. If a woman doesn't feel it all initially it's extremely unlikely she ever will. She may come around to seeing that being with you might be...
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    How old were you when you took this red pill?

    39. Took me a several year long custody battle that I lost to wake me up. As someone said above...it's never too late. Just make daily steps to self improvement...no matter how small. The effects will snowball and eventually you'll back at your old self and laugh.
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    Stay or RUN ?

    You know what to do, bro. The only plus I see on that list is good sex. No sex is worth the drama that can arise from everything else you typed.
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    opposite-sex-friendships

    When I first swallowed the red pill and came across this site I immediately cut off all female friends. It was the best thing I could've done at the time. It forced me to solidify my male friendships which helped me tremendously. It also made me realize how much horrible advice I was taking from...
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    What if she offered to buy you a ticket?

    Thanks for the replies, guys. To answer @Julian I live outside the US. She was born and raised here but now works in the US. She's pretty well off and can easily afford it. She's at the top of her field and is in demand internationally. She gets flown all over the place for work. She's in her...
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    What if she offered to buy you a ticket?

    Met a chick over the summer. She lives overseas but spends the summer here. We went out on two dates. I was very aloof and didn't think much of it since she was slated to leave. The night before she left she came over and we fooled around. We didn't go all the way. She's been away for a few...
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    Is NYC just a horrible city for minorities?

    I'm a black non American who visited NYC a few years back before I discovered this site and the red pill. With my afc/beta ways I managed to bag a Jewish senior vp at a very popular company in NYC. It was quite an experience. First time I'd ever seen a black card for instance. She paid for...
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    Older chick drama

    I'd ignore her and leave her be. Hell. I'd even Delete her contact. She's obviously hoping you'll remain an orbiter. All this intellectual stimulation isn't worth it if she isn't responding to your advances. If you want her as a friend....as in you're not attracted to her in the...
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    She turns up at my gig with a dude.

    No disrespect taken. I totally agree with you. My shaking hands with dude was my way of showing I didn't care really. That I wasn't thinking about her flaking. In retrospect, I agree. I shouldn't have. Lesson learnt.
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    She turns up at my gig with a dude.

    Yeah. I don't think she's interested. Next.
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    She turns up at my gig with a dude.

    Lol. I do this part time and I'm also far from popular. So I don't think I count as one of " you guys". Lol
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    She turns up at my gig with a dude.

    Thanks for the reminder. You're right.
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    She turns up at my gig with a dude.

    I tried getting this chick out on a date for a while. I was traveling a bit so our shedules never matched. The last time, I suggested a day. She told me it was possible but she'd get back to me. She never did. She sounded like she had a lot going on at work. Fast forward to earlier this...
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    She never loved me..

    . This might be how third world women view the situation. Obviously very few women and men have this sacrificial(kamikaze?) approach in the West. To them, relationships are more like a slot machine. You dont problem-solve a slot machine, you just find another one that might pay out better and...
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    A good reason not to get married

    I think I read it on this forum that psychologists often have more issues than their clients. A clinical psychologist is a red flag for me in a woman. Not a deal breaker but it definitely makes me cautious. I dated one once who believed BPD could be cured and specialized in seeing BPD clients. I...
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    How to Spot a Unicorn

    Purple pill, huh? First time I'm hearing that term. Interesting. Would you place Mark Mason's book Models in the "purple pill" group?
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    How to Spot a Unicorn

    I'm looking forward to seeing where this post goes. I'm pretty junior here as far as DJs go, but I'm in agreement with the OP. I've made a few mistakes with women since being on these forums, but I've come to the realization that I do want a LTR, another kid and possibly marriage. The spinning...
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    What's your method for handling flaking?

    If they flake and offer no reasonable excuse and no attempt to reschedule, I next her. If they do the above and flake another time...I'm out.
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    Drunk female friend

    Nope.
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