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For his own peace of mind and dignity. Just my opinion but it “feels” better to not be bitter and to let go and wish another human being well! :)

It does but women aren’t as visually stimulated as men are. we just don’t place it as high up on the priority list as men do. it’s on there for sure. i wouldn’t date an obese man because it looks gross and is also unhealthy and he couldn’t do activities that i value. but females def “put up”...

i have always wanted to try MDMA but this is the reason i haven’t and won’t. i already have a bit of a struggle with my brain chemicals and have it under control for the most part (without meds). “When ecstasy then wears off, individuals may experience a difficult “crash” and feel fatigued...

honestly i still find men so “hard to read.” i think maybe i project a lot or over analyze or insert emotions into it when i shouldn’t. how much contact do you guys need/want from a girl you are seeing? this includes text and in person. is less more in that it keeps it fresh and builds...

Your reply should have been “okay, take care!” i don’t agree with no reply and as that actually leaves the ball in her court to come back and it makes it look like it had an impact on you. Move on and be happy!

i have a new rule that i do not have my plates (boyfriends) on my Facebook. there’s been too much jealousy and them being nosey and i would rather not throw one in the others face. not the details anyway. as well, i don’t need to be on theirs and see them with their other plates or GFs. it’s...

Rowing! Yes! Outdoors or in? it’s great when you do find things that you love that are also healthy. my walks are not a chore at all. i love nature, i listen to an audiobook and stay fit.

i think people don’t stop and add all the little things up to be honest. same with money. coworkers also complain about being broke without adding up how much they spend on that breakfast and lunch everyday. i attribute it to laziness, physically and mentally. Make a spreadsheet for god’s sake.

i think it’s a matter of finding what works for you and everyone is slightly different. i tried the gym for one year and while it toned me up quickly it wasn’t something i could stick with. i just disliked it so much. same with running. tried that for a year and we didn’t agree. it’s...

Do more yoga ladies! It’s really not that hard to be fit. Take a walk every day and eat healthy. Fast once a week for 24-48 hours. Easy. 39 and creeping close to 40 and i still get compliments on my body. Moderation but don’t eat crap. Fruit or celery/peanut butter for dessert Also, men of all...

I don’t think he will drop me but it’s always a possibility. Wow, interesting question. I have known for a while that he will most likely never break up with me no matter what I do. I don’t want to take advantage of that and yet you are right that it lets me know he will tolerate it from me. But...

this is my super dominant guy that i have been seeing for a little over a year. i did something pretty terrible and am wondering how to resolve it. i can’t change what i did and we had a talk already. i did cause him pain and he lost trust in me (no, not cheating). From a man’s POV, how would...

What, no! i was kidding when i said asking for a friend. i am the terrible female. :( I mean i did something to one of my guys. He won’t break up with me over it. i have already apologized and been remorseful. He wants to meet up today. How do I play it? I don’t want to be a sad sack or keep...

When a female does something “bad” to you, bad behavior etc and you aren’t going to break up with her... how do you she prefer make it up to you? Talking it out, promises, groveling, just changing behavior? Is there a best way you’d like her to handle it? Asking for a friend :oops:

It’s a turn off when a man says, “can i kiss you?” ugh. But i get they’re trying to be polite or maybe avoid #metoo. Better is to say, “kiss me.” That’s dominant plus she can still not if she wants. But she will... :) Someone posted a good video about touch on this forum not long ago. Find that...

i thought i did that. will try again. this physcho won’t leave me alone.

How do i block my mail on here?

Move. And please stop sending all your posts to me in mail. I have no insight or advice for you. Good luck.

I was for about a year now. It’s gotten out of control and I don’t feel great about it. Hence all the threads. I think I just need to step back and reevaluate.

i’m 39!