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Not going to happen. For one, it’s not ethical. Secondly she only sees you as a client and $$, and lastly she gets hit on all the time by male clients and most likely thinks it’s annoying/creepy. Just enjoy the massage and let go of the fantasy.

i thought spinning plates meant seeing and sleeping with multiple women. can’t you just sleep with another of your plates?

there are people out there that date. i don’t really get the mentality of you must only date one at a time. All 3 of mine also date others. Personally i am not looking for exclusive at this point. One has a primary GF, one is seeing some girls here and there and one has a serious LTR. I am...

I agree! It’s my dudes, especially one of them that is requesting i stay in better contact especially when he's away. and to stay “close.”

Lol i hear ya. They are the ones wanting “more contact” though. Do men dislike discussing the relationship? I do tend to do that in person at times.

Just be poly and out in the open. sneaking around is lame. tell women you are in open relationships. geez.

Maybe you are right. i attract train wrecks right now i think. lol. It must be vibes i give off or where i am at. Thanks. Something to think about.

THIS for sure! One of my guys the sex is super hot and relationship is exciting but the drama makes me worn out. lol. The other BF is like a cozy slipper but the sexual attraction is not there. i have sex but need the physical to get me going whereas the other BF i am ready just by hearing his...

my tendency isn’t normal i think which is why i am asking. i tend to be really distant and reserved and not show a lot of emotion or affection. it’s not healthy and i am trying to find a balance. with my current BFs i could go days without any contact and be fine. but they are not and so i am...

Interesting. Never really thought about it that way. my relationships have kind of been one or the other. hmmm

Then she’s also not a person who does what she says she is going to do (or not do in her case). I get it could be a little playful game of hers but personally i dislike when women pull this card. like our sex should be a reward for the guy. meh.

You’re right. Good point!

Wow then i am surprised. i have a codependent tendency with the “right “ person (usually another codependent or narcissist) and the relationships are always dramatic and not very healthy. fun and exciting maybe, but not very peaceful. but i still indulge at times

Not necessarily. i make fun of myself for things that are legit, like how i get lost in town. it’s true and funny and not a reflection of my self worth. it’s just fun to laugh at yourself once in a while. i never have anyone give me a compliment when i make a joke about something dumb or...

i love self deprecating humor and i partake. my self esteem is generally healthy with the exception around my period. i personally only use it once in a while though because it cracks me and others up. if she’s doing it too much then i agree she may have self esteem issues. i disagree with...

biggoal, i see your name but not your reply. i have you on ignore. just a head’s up so you don’t waste replies on me

female here so i’ll let the men dole out advice but “i am not f’ing you” is so obnoxious to me. it’s a show of “power” from a female and to me it’s weak and just plain dumb. how about not making these immature, arbitrary rules, she just meet you and see where it goes. personally i would have...

na, i do it for myself. i have done the other way and i suffer by holding onto anger or other emotions. the other parties usually don’t know either way though. i do most things for myself and care only a little what others think. i care to an extent because i appreciate feedback and am open to...

i think sarcasm but i am bad at detecting that. lol

true. i don’t do one night stands. but not sure because that’s what is attractive to me and turns me on. so maybe i would want that in a one night stand. i generally don’t find someone attractive or unattractive until i know them a bit. they are neutral. then their attractiveness raises or...