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Unconditional Acceptance

yes! this is why we have this society we have today! it messes up boys and girls and later the men and women they become. it changes them. i have no stats but it seems like millennials don’t even think about getting married. even the gen before, same deal. i am at the tail end of gen x and a few...

And happier! Good advice for all. Just go after it! Push! :)

Nothing in life is free. You pay one way or another. In my divorce we both parted with what was ours. i do enjoy some men with money, but it’s not about the money as i do okay for myself. Getting annoyed at women because we like men with status is like females trying to shame men for preferring...

He seems really secure though. he’s good looking, has money, houses, cars etc. and 2 other GFs plus FWBs. I am attracted to him very much, just be needs a lot of female attention. and i like to live in the moment and not have to “check in” when we aren’t together.

One of my guys is the same as me in that regard. we never “chat” over text, only use it to make plans. i am starting to see and like him more. he’s my age. strangely it’s the older guy (he’s 57 and i am 39) that is asking (demanding) for more contact via text and more closeness.

i just am not convinced. i enjoy men for who they are and what they offer. the yang to my yin. but i don’t ever think of them as cash cows and gettig married to “lock one in” seems illogical and maybe cynical. getting married doesn’t lower compete anxiety either. the “men always cheat” image is...

i suppose if she can’t work that’s true. or has a hard time opening jars. if it’s about resources, it’s about kids. i was married for a looooong time. now single, i have more access to resources than ever. trips, dinners,sex, etc. so how would marriage benefit a women without kids (family). a...

Marriage doesn’t benefit women either. It benefits families. Nothing else.

Def moderation and movement. i drink, eat bread, carbs etc and am in good shape.

LMAO i will NOT submit to forcible massage! i am seeing Jerry in Sept!!

you’re not going to get very far, very fast with such a puny sail, captain. :p also, 90% naked? prude! This happens to men all the time even if they aren’t mentally aroused. They are trained to just ignore it. my best friend is a LMT and the stories of her male clients are HILARIOUS. and yes...

To be clear, i am not saying don’t go for it! but be willing to risk losing her as your massage girl. that’s all. i went out with a guy in Sedona who gave me a massage, a LMT. He gave me his card after the session and i called him. but i was very clearly “into” him during the massage. :) And, i...

there are no rules but there are choices and consequences. she won’t risk it. Attraction may not be a choice but acting on it is. i am attracted to my boss but i don’t pursue it. not every urge and need must be satiated now or ever. we have control over behaviors and can think and decide if...

She probably won’t risk her source of income to bang a dude. that’s what i meant by not ethical in that she’ll get a reputation as not being a serious LMT. There’s codes against this sort of thing. i can almost 100% guarantee she isn’t into him other than as a client, even if she’s acting...

i don’t doubt it, i wasn’t being skeptical just nosey. haha :)

As a side note, she can go to school AND work. i worked 40 hours and did college when i was married. he was also quite a bit older than me and so i can understand that dynamic of “being taken care of.” Luckily i am not a lazy or unmotivated person and he was always really supportive of me...

Single moms means single and part time dads too. someone having a kid is a dealbreaker for me unless the kid is older (like a teenager) and they don’t live with the father. it’s a mess out there with all the semi orphaned kids.

She was sitting near the outlet to charge her cell phone. Most likely.

i want to see all your bodies. Please post.