Met girl on tinder who lives 2 hours away
Bit of chat back and forth
She wants to drive to see me
Drives over planning to stay the night
Have some fun start watching movies she's laying on me playing with my hands etc.
Make out a bit etc
Starts getting towards bed time and her phone...
I see a thread about a guy who is going on a date with a girl he went to school with, and the replies don't surprise me for a minute....
See here's the thing, men and women have different things they look for in a partner
Men = is she hot?
Women = is he succesful, confident, attractive, etc...
It's akin to chest beating from toothless old gorillas.
As long as OP isn't going into a situation to get played, cool.
Hell, if some dude on this site has a thing for 60 year old women power to him.
This should be a place for advice and uplevelling your game not judging dudes personal...
Some extreme immaturity in this thread...
OP, good job so far man, it's a buzz for sure.
Just stay cool for the date, don't pedestalize this woman, go have fun and do your thing, don't get in your own way.
If you are a short guy you just got handed a bad card. At the end of the day at a biological level woman are looking at your genetic potential, they want the guys who are going to father the biggest, strongest, healthiest kids.
Animals in nature, the biggest, strongest, healthiest ones are the...
I got a good deal on a 1/4 Juri figurine, i'm a big fan of street fghter and have a couple of cabinets in the garage, so my Juri got pride of place on the coffee table.
Plate came over last night and just owuld not shut up about "why did you buy that", literally looking at it with hate in her...
There is a difference between the elite of society (the 1%) and the rest of us scrubs.
The elite will always be ok, they are changing what happens to the 99%
Straight men will continue to run things from the shadows, even if they put female figureheads out in the public eye
Oh they get it alright.
The government is happy with the way things are going, they want the straight male marginalized.
Why?
They want the family unit broken down, so that more and more people become reliant on the state.
The current "war on masculinity" which people are starting to notice...
for sure sometimes you can't control your mood but the real skill is learning to review what happened after the fact and admit "yeah, maybe i could have handled that a little better" then do better the next time.
It takes guts to admit you were wrong
This really depends on if it's a hook up or a more regular sort of thing.
If it's the former then it's really just looks and a tolerable personality, if its more than that then yeah the criteria broadens
If she start's "acting like she doesn't want to" then you back up, use some humor, change the subject off the drama crap and then it happens a little bit later on.
You set the mood, she came over, she's obviously down to hook up but you let her insecurity degrade into a "situation" then threw a...
If you REALLY want success on OLD i will give you the secret
Step 1: Go to the gym for 6-12 months and get ripped
Step 2: Put up physique shots on OLD
Step 3: Watch as women come to you!
It's THAT simple
I agree with your overall message but you could do with learning a bit of empathy, a lot of these guys did awfully in the genetic lottery and have been beaten down by abusive parents.
The mainstream media isn't going to help them, people around them won't, they need to get lucky and find little...
I feel bad for incels, they have fallen through the cracks of a society which shames and considers men who can't "get women" to be "losers", but then gives them the exact opposite information which is needed to "get women".
I actually WAS an incel years back, I did "ok" at school because i was...
I know a guy who doesn't really have much game but is happy in his relationship
his version of "happy" is being with a 6/10 and sitting on the couch watching netflix with her every night and getting fat.
But hey, she doesn't cheat on him and they don't argue that much, it works for him.
But...
It's rude and/or passive aggressive behavior.
She should be shuffled to the back of your list of priorities, if she wants to put in the work to move back to nearer the top, cool. If not, you haven't lost anything worth stressing over.
In terms of improving the quality of the forum, I'd encourage everyone to try and keep an open mind.
I agree that I'd love for this forum to be a place where guys can come and get positive feedback and learn from others experience and knowledge.
You are always going to get your trolls in...
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