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    What I Did on my SS Vacation Part 1: Tom Leykis

    While men are their most powerful at 50 and enjoy another 20-25 years of near-peak productivity, at age 50 women reach menopause. They physically shut down. Worse, this generation of women turning 50 were part of the hang-out hook up culture, the McMansion debacle, the Cougar trend, and worst...
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    Facebook: adding girls as friends or message first?

    I've said this a dozen times. NEVER put your girlfriends on Facebook. It kills attraction. You want them to see baby pictures of you? Your grandmother? Your aunt? Come on. Facebook is for high school friends, not people you met last Thursday. Especially with all this Harvey Weinstein crap...
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    Is anybody here actually happier when in a serious relationship vs being single?

    Of course I'm happier when I have a relationship, as long as she has high interest. Would you rather receive text messages from a hot and horny girl, or not? That said, when she backs away (and she will) it hurts. You need to use that pain you will feel to fuel your quest for self improvement...
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    8 Types of "Arguments" from Women

    With each woman you have a relationship with there exists the beauty to bullsh!t balance scale. If there is more beauty on one side there can be more bullsh!t on the other. Once they tip the scale toward the bullsh!t side, you simply walk away until she voluntarily removes bullsh!t (or adds...
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    The Red Pill Godfather: Paul Elam

    In my case it was such a romantic movie to watch together that she painted for me when she got home. It was an original watercolor, and the best gift from her. A year later I sent her a photo of her watching that movie and she gushed (this was less than a week ago). Now granted, I knew her and...
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    The Red Pill Godfather: Paul Elam

    Paul Elam's coverage is literally on par with the film (though some frames are warped I presume for copyright reasons). You can mainly just listen to it versus watch it.
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    The Red Pill Godfather: Paul Elam

    The Red Pill movement is now covered in a major film The Red Pill by Cassie Jaye. In that movie she interviews one of the founders of the Men's Right's Movement, MRA (Men's Rights Activist) Paul Elam. Paul is someone I really look up to. He runs a you tube channel An Ear for Men. Over the past...
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    How long before you get bored of the sex?

    When you find your dream lover (which took me until age 45), the sex gets better and better for at least the first 1-2 years. Once you reach the promised land you realize that with 95% of women, sex is like glorified masturbation. Sex is overrated unless you really find someone you're into. I...
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    Being Romantic

    If romantic language doesn't feel right, you might plan a romantic event like cooking her dinner and setting the table with a candle. Or a hike where you hid a bottle of wine and two glasses some place, or plan a soundtrack and ride, or watch a certain movie. It's like baking a pie. You start...
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    Being Romantic

    That's like saying they have no balls. Romance is an emergent property that occurs when you don't mess up over a sustained period. You need to stop doing whatever you are doing to spoil the moment. It's 99% not physical or she wouldn't tell you it's correctable. Your best bet to start being...
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    8 Types of "Arguments" from Women

    90% of arguments with a woman go like this: 0) She is wrong in some way (let's face it). Example: She says "Marriage is good for men". 1) You attempt to convey some information to change her mind. 2) The information is in the form of "Most of X is Y". Example: You say "70% of marriages end in...
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    What I Did on my SS Vacation Part 1: Tom Leykis

    You're not usually honest? The lady who called in at 31:00?? Is that you? Who cares what women 50+ think?? That's the point. Not Tom's point. Not my point. The point of reality. But as he says, if you guys are 25 and under these old ladies will go Graduate on you. Just make sure she buys you...
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    8 Types of "Arguments" from Women

    Subtitled: why you should never argue with a woman The "Reversal of time" argument. Example: “I broke up with my boyfriend because he wasn’t happy with me about the way I handled the breakup”. They don’t know the difference between before and after. The “You never know” argument. Example...
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    Do Any of You Have Experience Dating Russian women?

    All women are still women, but Russian women remind me of women from the 1980's or early 1990's. In other words, they are less corrupted. They appreciate guys with jobs who pay the rent on time, are hot, and have family values (i.e., they brag about wanting and having children). Last night I...
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    What I Did on my SS Vacation Part 1: Tom Leykis

    Did you ever wonder what bigneil would be like as a fat radio talk show host? Look and listen no further than this classic script from Tom Leykis' 1994-2009 radio show: "Let me just bring a bulletin to all of you women who think you are 'fabulous at 50': Men want to date women younger than...
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    Is it even possible to have an awesome relationship where a couple never fights?

    Yes, the best strategy is: when she does something you don't like you walk away and see whether she makes a SERIOUS effort to get you back. Also, I've found that fate plays a huge role. You will run into certain women at multiple locations. They find this extremely romantic, especially if you...
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    Every single one of you is an abuser of women

    I've been reading along though was forbidden from replying. You were my biggest supporter (out of about 3), and (perhaps not coincidentally) also had some of the best content over the past 3 months. Thank you my brother!
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    Coach Craig Kenneth

    I wasn't going to flame Kenneth but Pygmyllion (who was not me but did have a similar annunciation) had the same experience I did (only I had a 25 year age difference). I paid for an hour because he used my girlfriend's name and the exact date that would have made sense had she contacted him...
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    Is it even possible to have an awesome relationship where a couple never fights?

    Yes, after my controversial singles topped the charts I was banned from the airwaves, but I'm back with a full album. BTW I never had any account other than this.
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    Every single one of you is an abuser of women

    The Prophet Profit! I once made fun of a dancer who had a Muslim customer who I called the Profit Mohammed. Or Ali Baba and the Forty Dollars.
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