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    The woman you want to have a relationship is not the same girl as the one you want to bang.

    Compromise or choose one. Is endless porno sex what you live for? Or would coming home to a fresh cooked meal and a kiss be bliss for you? Or can you find a woman who's somewhere in between? You can't have it all. Compromise.
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    mannn.. the game really is to easy

    If the game is too easy, find a new game. I think everyone grows out of meaningless tail. That game does get really, really easy. The new game is figuring out how women fit into a life you enjoy. If you're basing your contentment on women, or the challenge of women, or sex, or getting rich, then...
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    Did I do good or mess up?

    I would calmly but bluntly ask for a reply. "Ignoring me is rude. I'd love to have dinner and a movie with you on Sunday. If you're not interested then please don't waste my time." "Hey, you haven't replied. I'd like to see you on the weekend if you're free, otherwise I will make other plans."...
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    Did I do good or mess up?

    This is bad thing. I don't know about you, but my time is valuable. Too valuable to be wasting time with games. Ask her out. If she declines, go no contact until she reaches out again. If she reaches out again, repeat. If she doesn't reach out then the problem solves itself.
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    How was this response?

    She's into you and using the games that work on women (social proof) to try and get you. We project our ideas of how things operate onto others and so if you look for the ways in which women find men attractive, you'll find women projecting them onto men they are attracted to. This is the...
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    What is going on here?

    Pretty sure this poster is a troll. Doesn't seem to be many legitimate posts these days which is why I haven't been around as much. It's a shame.
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    Did I do good or mess up?

    Well I'm confused as to why you're putting so much thought into this one then. If you have four women, then see them if this one isn't playing ball. Silence and distance is a powerful weapon. A woman's currency is sex, a mans is attention and time. This is it in a nutshell. You care if "win".
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    Chris Pratt asked his girlfriend for MARRIAGE

    The whole point of game is understanding intersexual dynamics so that you can craft the life that you want. There are no absolutes. Is marriage risky? Yes. Does that mean that the cons outweigh the pros for everyone? No. I'm going to get married and have kids. I grew up in a big family and I...
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    Did I do good or mess up?

    Don't play games, that's a woman's strategy. Men are unapologetic and authentic. You invite her around to your house, the pretense is always understood. If she is not meeting your needs, you find other women. She should think you have options because you actually have options, not because you're...
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    Contacted by ex with some major psych issues, need some advice

    You're just trying to rationalize your feelings. You're trying to justify holding on. Don't. You know she's not a positive impact on your life so just... let... go.... Break NC if you want, but only to tell her you think it's best for the both of you to move on with your lives. Then you block...
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    Help an AFC: Safe Boundaries For Seeking Rejection

    No. It's an art not a science. For beginners I recommend holding her hand. This is the easiest and least invasive way to gauge physical interest, although it is also not a guarantee. If you can play with a girls hand and she is reciprocating touch, squeezing your hand, rubbing a finger or thumb...
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    Contacted by ex with some major psych issues, need some advice

    CBT is the mental equivalent of a suit of armor and a sword. It's fvcking invaluable and it's free. You can take complete control of your life and destiny if you learn to use it effectively.
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    Contacted by ex with some major psych issues, need some advice

    There's no more to learn, you've learned it. Here's the lessons. Don't tolerate disrespect from women. Don't trade your self respect for sex. Playing psychologist with women can be useful as thought exercises, but don't stick around with a woman who's negatively impacting your life. You'll date...
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    Would you buy a Lambo to attract women if you could?

    Money is relative. To most people, $50k is a lot of money. You ever worked in the high rollers of a casino? $50k to some people is like a coffee to an average person. To some it's less money than you could physically represent! Positional goods are aimed at people who can buy them like they're...
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    Would you buy a Lambo to attract women if you could?

    Women don't give a fvck about cars. Yeah, they'll attract gold diggers or show a woman you are financially sound, but if you've got the personality of a brick and can't give her an orgasm then a Lambo won't help you with women past the first ten seconds.
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    Red pill moment

    The primary character trait you want in a woman if you're seeking a long term relationship is impulse control. All women will have these desires. The "wanderlust" as you see on Tinder profiles. That's fine. It's the same thing as men wanting to fvck any hot woman. What is important is can she...
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    Help an AFC: Safe Boundaries For Seeking Rejection

    AFC is a mental state and a result of social conditioning. The primary focus should be adjusting the way you think about things. Women do like romantic gestures, but they like them from guys they are sexually attracted to, and they like them coming from a place of strength, not from a guy trying...
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    My new girlfriend is making out with her female friend, and I am getting jealous.

    Your problem is your goal does not match your strategy. You are dating a twenty year old who likes to party because you "like her", but want a "wifey" girl. So you fvcked up. That's never going to happen with this girl. You need to be screening for non-slutty girls. There are some at your age...
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    Changing the mindset

    This is literally what happens. It blew my mind when I started doing cold approaches. To men it's like, why give your number if you're not interested, that makes no sense. To women it's, if I do this he'll leave me alone with no drama or risk of aggression. It's why you want to focus on the...
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    Girlfriend heading off for 5 weeks this summer.

    That's just women at that age and below 25-27. They're very rarely looking to settle, they have a world of adventuring at their feet and they want to explore it. It's why it's so important for men to have their life and passion in the forefront. If you start to craft your world around a woman...
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