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Not necessarily, but more of a challenge for sure. If you're sub-five and below 5'8? Yeah, it's a wrap.

Pretty much this. It's just a myriad of things (timing, her attraction to you, how you're feeling at the time, etc).

I'd say as long as you're above a certain height (5'9 or so) and have a good face, it shouldn't really matter. I'm 5'10/178cm but never had issues with my height.

I'm in a very similar boat. I've deleted the apps from my phone and I'm taking a break as I'm a bit drained emotionally from the last few months. Women can really take their toll on you if you let them.

Yeah, I reacted badly for sure. I should have just ignored it. It is what it is now.

No, I don't offer friendship. I meant as in I was getting needy and a case of oneitis so I'll learn from next time. I'll also learn not to react badly and be calm.

Usually I am very calm and either just respond to these types of messages with "Okay, no problem" ot just ignore them. I even told her about another girl just to spite her. This was quite uncharacteristic of me for sure. I could have suggested a FWB situation in hindsight. But that's 20/20...

Yeah, i felt bad as I said some other things to her and she's a nice girl. I tried to apologise after a few days but got no response. It is what it is and I'll learn for next time.

Tinder from 2013-16 was insane and so easy.

Yep, that's all true. It was a good experience and I learned from it. They're all replaceable.

Yeah, I handled it badly. I'm usually very calm but I had a lot on that week and it got to me. I usually don't respond to those messages or just say "That's fine, take care" but this hurt as I was getting attached. I've learned a lot from this.

I don't like those types of games. I asked what her availability was like and so that's when she sent me that. I reacted terribly as well and told her I had another girl anyway, which wasn't a good look. I've learned a lot from this experience at least.

Well, she got quite deep in the last date in saying what she wanted and said she wanted a relationship. However, I guess actions speak louder. At least I got to smash raw loads of times.

That's a good one. I'm wondering if she was implying a FWB situation. If she did, then I'd be pretty gutted as she was very attractive and I completely ****ed it.

Yeah, looking back that was probably it. Lesson learned.

Tbh I really hit my stride from 28-31 and banged my most amount of women. I've usually been a late bloomer. I used to suffer from big anxiety and overthink everything (still happens), but I just learned a lot from the past. Plus I'm much better looking now.

Yep, I agree. This was good for me as I was getting oneitis over her and overlooking her red flags (such as having male friends and saying that she gets bored of men when in relationships).

Tbh I was actually in between rounds in boxing sparring and so I was quite heated in that moment, so I said it in anger a bit. However, I didn't really want to just be friends as I didn't see a point.

This girl I was dating for a few months messaged me a couple of days after we had a day trip to this beach town (we smashed after) to say "You're a nice guy, I just think that we're looking for different things in a relationship and so I can't see this being more than friendship." I then...

I am taking the advice and I appreciate it. I've noted what I should do going forward based on what has been said here; ie not spending so much time together and not being so readily available. We've spent enough time together for now. I'll also cut back on messaging as well for a bit. I'll...