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Good point. Very few people are congruent with what they say they want and tend to overlook it if they're extremely attractive.

This is why I prefer online. I don't even have to leave the house to arrange a date/hookup now.

You're probably right. A lot of the time with online dating I'm often talking to women I would never bother with irl. Although women have the power on apps. Often it comes back to haunt them at least.

Not a fan of it. Seems pretty manipulative and rather mean. Would you really want a girl who is so easily manipulated? Short-term then whatever, but long-term? Hell no.

Good old hypergamy. Although tbf I doubt she would care about how "emotionally available" he is.

The thing is is that women say that they want men like that, but they're not attracted to those men in reality. They basically want a good looking, tall, muscular alpha who is also rich and a go-getter, but at the same time supposedly gentle, "empathetic", nurturing and "emotionally available"...

I spent so much money travelling the UK and Europe watching football (soccer) over the years that I've kind of become drained to it. I know it's a different sport and culture, but there are still similarities with fanatical, committed and sometimes over the top fans.

Because sometimes it's best to cast a wider net and not become overly reliant on one thing. Getting better in all areas might be worth a go.

Because it's probably best to cast a wider net and not be over reliant on one thing. Yes, I agree with your comment.

That's true. I guess it's best to just find what works best for you. Personally online dating was a Godsend for me.

A girl back at uni was talking to me for hours one night after her friend got with my friend. She wouldn't stop talking to me or leave my side pretty much between the hours of 11pm-5pm. We went back to my friend's dorm room and she proceeded to slap my arse, add me on FB, take my number, flirt...

Well then extra kudos to him. How attractive are/were his wives?

Hi there. I'm a long-term lurker of this forum and this is my first thread. A bit of context: I do pretty well on online dating and often get many likes, matches, dates and get laid quite often from it. However, I haven't approached a girl IRL since 2015. I'm quite concerned about coming...

Try one more time. My first instinct is that she isn't that interested, although there is no harm in trying.

I'm not sure why, but girls on Hinge seemed to be either ridiculously picky or deluded. I never really had this issue on other apps, but Hinge just seemed to attract these type of women for me. It might just be my location, though.

I agree, it can certainly be done. You just often need to balance it out with very good looks or money/status usually.

I'd imagine that 5"5 is a pretty tough obstacle to overcome, although you can certainly overcome it if you maximise everything else.

Suggest Wednesday if you like. See what her response is. Have you been on a date with her before? Tbh I would be talking to other girls and trying to arrange with them instead. Often when they do things like this then they're not particularly interested. Although if she does this again then...