The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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What Women Want in a Man

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Here’s what woman want in a man. As it turns out, HUMOUR is key.


Confidence
Trustworthiness
Integrity
Compassion
Emotional Availability
Respect
A Sense Of Humor
Maturity

Thoughts?
 

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The thing is is that women say that they want men like that, but they're not attracted to those men in reality.

They basically want a good looking, tall, muscular alpha who is also rich and a go-getter, but at the same time supposedly gentle, "empathetic", nurturing and "emotionally available".

This mix of man doesn't exist.
 

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I’m around a lot of couples and I don’t know a single one that laughs all the time.
 

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The thing is is that women say that they want men like that, but they're not attracted to those men in reality.

They basically want a good looking, tall, muscular alpha who is also rich and a go-getter, but at the same time supposedly gentle, "empathetic", nurturing and "emotionally available".

This mix of man doesn't exist.
He exists, but only on instagram with a verified account and has about 300k followers and doesn’t even realize she exists on this earth. But she’s going to compare him to you, you can bet that.
 

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He exists, but only on instagram with a verified account and has about 300k followers and doesn’t even realize she exists on this earth. But she’s going to compare him to you, you can bet that.
Good old hypergamy.

Although tbf I doubt she would care about how "emotionally available" he is.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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The issue is getting past the smoke and mirrors in order to be able to demonstrate those qualities. It can be done, but requires iteration - a lot of it. Like battlefield triage, if she’s not demonstrating interest from the girl, it’s best to politely duck out and move onto the next in the interest of time.

People who act normal like they have some social sense is in pretty high demand these days.
 

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Women don’t know what they want. It all depends on how they “feel” in that given moment. A lot of men have those traits but women consider them “good guys” or “nice guys”, aka boring. They’ll pick a complete loser that makes them horny and then complain that he’s an a$$hole later. All comes down to if she has the tingles and what she thinks she deserves.

Like @stringpuller says, worry about yourself and let her figure out why she won’t fux you. Don’t waste your time trying to ”qualify” for a women’s approval.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Humour over looks hey...Hmmm. Ken Dodd v Brad Pitt,well,old Doddy will get em every time in that case :rofl:
 

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What women really like is money, fag0ts are the ones who like d1ck
 

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Here’s what woman want in a man. As it turns out, HUMOUR is key.


Confidence
Trustworthiness
Integrity
Compassion
Emotional Availability
Respect
A Sense Of Humor
Maturity

Thoughts?
True... but @Reauxshambreaux is correct, IF he has the looks, money, and status a particular women is looking for. These things build interest, but without the LMS a chick needs to get her motor running these other things won't even get you out of the gate.
 

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Are we talking about fvck buddies or tying the knot?
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Here’s what woman want in a man. As it turns out, HUMOUR is key.


Confidence
Trustworthiness
Integrity
Compassion
Emotional Availability
Respect
A Sense Of Humor
Maturity

Thoughts?
The thing is is that women say that they want men like that, but they're not attracted to those men in reality.

They basically want a good looking, tall, muscular alpha who is also rich and a go-getter, but at the same time supposedly gentle, "empathetic", nurturing and "emotionally available".

This mix of man doesn't exist.
I think that women really do want these things, but the primary things (LMSG) trump those in importance.

If you ask me for my dream girl I'd tell you she's hot, fun and horny. If you told me to skip those obvious main traits, then I'd start listing things like intelligence and morality and integrity and political alignments.

But if she's hot and loves my d!ck I couldn't care less if she's a shoplifter and a communist.

In the same way, you get women wanting a sweet sensitive man, but being willing to fvck a bank robber if he's hot and promises to buy her diamonds in cash.
 

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I think that women really do want these things, but the primary things (LMSG) trump those in importance.

If you ask me for my dream girl I'd tell you she's hot, fun and horny. If you told me to skip those obvious main traits, then I'd start listing things like intelligence and morality and integrity and political alignments.

But if she's hot and loves my d!ck I couldn't care less if she's a shoplifter and a communist.

In the same way, you get women wanting a sweet sensitive man, but being willing to fvck a bank robber if he's hot and promises to buy her diamonds in cash.
Good point.

Very few people are congruent with what they say they want and tend to overlook it if they're extremely attractive.
 

BadBoy89

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I think that women really do want these things, but the primary things (LMSG) trump those in importance.

If you ask me for my dream girl I'd tell you she's hot, fun and horny. If you told me to skip those obvious main traits, then I'd start listing things like intelligence and morality and integrity and political alignments.

But if she's hot and loves my d!ck I couldn't care less if she's a shoplifter and a communist.

In the same way, you get women wanting a sweet sensitive man, but being willing to fvck a bank robber if he's hot and promises to buy her diamonds in cash.
I would say that’s a little different.

A man will have sex with any women, anywhere, anytime, as long as she is young and hot. He can disassociate his feelings from sex

A woman can’t have sex with a hot guy anytime anywhere. She needs to “feel” it. She cannot disassociate her feelings from sex.

Although feminists are training young girls to.
 

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Women belong on top.

It took me too many years and women to realize they belong on top.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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