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Yeah i agree, more than 1 child is an absolute dealbreaker and means you will never even see your woman. I see what you're saying. This is what's called 'blended families'. It kind of makes sense in theory but people who grew up in one all say it was a bad experience because you know that other...

Still no signs of extraterrestrial activity around your stomach region?

This is sort of the problem with single moms. They will eventually and subconsciously want the man to pay and be a role model for their child(ren). It's just a consequence of entangling your lives. Almost all of them will tell you that they're not looking for help in any way, but then you...

Women are only empathetic when their own self interest isn't at risk. She is just trying to get to you emotionally since it sounds like you are the one who broke up with her. They are spiteful creatures when spurned. There's an old saying that goes something like this: In a breakup a man just...

Let me ask your @mhotrocks, don't you think you deserve better than this in life? You say that you love a woman who's treating you like garbage. You may 'love' her, but she clearly doesn't love you. This is very toxic and steals alot of your precious time that you could be spending with a woman...

Everyone around me seem to have joint surnames, so this is definately increasing in popularity and correlating with a more feminized society. The argument is something along the lines of wanting to respect her family (by keeping her surname) and the question why we can't do a compromise and have...

Since the human mind suffers from something called 'the fading effect' bias, we usually tend to romaticize our past relationships and ignore the negative parts. A good way to combat this would be to sit down with pen and paper and write down the not so good parts, why it didn't work and what...

Why force something that isn't there at the moment? I believe it's especially important to focus on things that bring you joy fresh after a breakup. You have to care for yourself and do things that you want to do, not because it would be sensible or because this forum thinks it's the way...

You think she wants to take it slow when she introduces you to her child on the second date? She's doing exactly what we berate your ex for, as in being selfish and irresponsible towards her child. I wouldn't call her mature with that behavior and if i'm allowed to generalise her behavior is...

How will all of this change any of the fact that she will still still bring new men into her life and expose their child to strangers every other month? She and her behavior is the problem here, not the men. In the end he can only control his own behavior. One can only hope the current man is a...

jaymbrs, we talk about the importance of setting boundaries to have healthy relationships with women but this goes for all relationships you will have in life and doesn't stop just because the relationship is over. You set them out of self love to make you feel good and safe because you know...

For starters by changing your mindset to: "what can she do to make you feel special?" You should just be providing a fun experience for a girl with potential, but you're not sure about her yet. Ask yourself, what do you enjoy to do? If you're excited, she'll feed off your excitement and become...

From observing i believe most men let their gf's/wives have orbiters until they get burned enough times to realise it doesn't work and regret it in hindsight. As a strong leader of any relationship you have to set certain boundaries not to let the dog sh1t all over your house, and be ready to...

Because 7 days is nothing brother, hang in there. Some days will be easy, others will be incredibly hard. As time passes, it will be easier and easier, one foot in front of the other and soon you'll be able to walk again. I don't believe in jumping into new women immediately after a breakup...

Is she from a traditional culture? This sounds exactly like that, where the woman see paying as the man's duty and she 'pays' you back in the effort she puts in. Giving you full transparency, cooks, cleans, giving small gifts etc. But i can sense that you're not comfortable with this setup, so...

Everyone sort of has an agenda, but when the agenda becomes a condition for the whole relationship, that's very selfish and a red flag. Especially when dealing with important life decisions, like kids. It's not your fault that she's in a hurry right now because she didn't think about this...

I got the exact same sentence from an ex, a couple of dates later than you. She wants to tell you that she's looking for something serious and wants to feel you out if she's going to invest more emotions in you or not. Lots of women can't stand the fact that you're dating around while seeing...

It's really cute when they approach you in this way and look for your attention, one thing i love about women. I recently had one hit me up with a picture of us she randomly 'found' in her suitcase 1 year later (and many travels later). You just smile.

Analyze the real problem here. Why are you making thread after thread about a single mom who's not even fvcking you? You've got great advice already but you keep ignoring it and go back. I can answer it for you - desperation, due to no options. I get it, the pandemic is making everything harder...

Women can't handle rejection in general and they have this strong urge to get the last word in. If she was dumped in a way she can't handle, the guy will stay on her mind forever. My ex's mother was completely obsessed by the biological father of my ex even though she was newly married. She was...