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You did exactly what is not advised to do in your situation when old feelings comes up to the surface, and you paid for it by feeling bad. That's fine, some learn by experience, some learn through the experience of others. As long as you learn something and become wiser in the future, it was...

Ah the classic projection. She just told you she cheated 100% and now tries to turn it around. Anyway this is not only dead, it's toxic for you. Get away from her.

Breakups involve alot of emotions, it's not a pleasurable experience for anyone involved. Usually someone is hurt more than the other and feelings of revenge may manifest themselves in some people. Stealing is part of hurting the other one as much as possible when the ship is already going down...

This is where you give her all the space and freedom in the world - you cut her out. She just needs to get her stuff in order before officially telling you it's over (translation: making this new 'friend' a sure thing). All her freedom talk and wanting to be in a chill relationship are just...

I've been there too and i was telling myself "i wonder if the grass is greener somewhere else" and started to stray quite heavily. Part of it is looking for a new challenge to conquer within our program of spreading the seed, but the bigger part is being with the wrong person. It's never going...

I bolded the important parts. Focus your attention on the first one and realise that the second one is a product of the human brain wanting what it can't have. What we can't have immediately raises its value and we tend to romanticize reality after the fact. This can be a very tricky powerful...

Also highlights the importance of guesswork vs reality - always let the stock market do the talking and not what a 'family investor', bank or other financial professional tell you to do. People have so many opinions about what 'should' happen with ego's and profits on the line, but the only...

That's how it looks when you live in true abundance and truly don't care about entertaining her. Also, rappers tend to know the true nature of women better than other professions. Just listen to the lyrics lol The Game was really good, i liked his music.

+1 Your "hey" is completely unnecessary and pointless, your follow up is worse by being reactive about nothing instead of just ignore and take the conversation somewhere. Make it fun and light hearted. You may have saved yourself time but still, the more important message here is to not be this...

By not running from or avoiding them, embrace them and take some time for yourself. Observe but don't judge. Time will do the rest as long as your stay away from the source of addiction (her). Staying busy works for most because too much alone time can make you dwell and from there it's easy to...

This sounds like a power move into compliance and feminist talk. At the same time we know that women respond better to men who challenge them. I will say however there's a distinct difference between not having time for her because you're busy living your life, and turning her down in way she...

No one gets on hit on more than pretty waitresses, i'm sure she had a standard routine for this to get some attention and validation out of it. Should have said "i'm not interested in becoming just another follower, i want to get to know you. What's you number?" *hand out phone* Set yourself...

Ouch, having a kid complicates things but this one is quite simple. She enjoyed using you for a long time, because you let her. Instead of punishing bad behavior (leaving you), you rewarded her with your time and attention so you taught her that she can continue like that. Enjoying you for her...

1. Don't sh1t where you eat 2. She's a feminist Still unsure? Read 1 and 2 again. It's a blessing that she rejected you. Who knows, she might have accused you of rape if you would have spent some intimite time together and then you would have had worse problems than to avoid someone who just...

Short answer is no. Long answer is everything you do and say will be used against you. If your parents died and you cry out of sadness, of course it's not the end of the world to cry in front of her, but crying because of her or anything deemed 'not deadly serious', you'll be seen as potentially...

Really? What's up with all this feminine hamstering. You say you're just looking to bang her, then why do you overanalyze why she has some pictures on her fb and what that potentially means. This is irrelevant if you're looking for what you say you're. Hit her straight up, set a date and take it...

I think you handled it well. She doesn't like the place? She had over a week to think about that, kinda rude to change location last minute. Not only location, she changed CITY. A date is a gift and if she's putting up resistance like that already it says alot about the future with her as you...

This mom of hers is a non-issue when you tap into her emotions. Don't give her any choice of setting roadblocks by pushing the right buttons. There is a saying "women set rules for betas and break rules for alphas" for a reason. Emotions override logic. You fxcked up here. When she came the...

With this I'd guess you come off as abit boring and one-dimensional in your style. Ask yourself if they could have a point, or not? I mean naturally always go after what you want and believe, but valid input should always be taken up for consideration and then you make a decision on what suits...

Maybe it's too late already but for me @samspade would be the perfect moderator. knowledgable, level-headed, mature approach, sense of humor and most importantly doesn't get into petty fights.