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  1. bcude

    "You only wear black" - sh!t test?

    Several? They might be onto something. What kind of relationships do you have with these women? If they're complete strangers i'd treat it as a test. If you've seen them before i'd say they're trying to help you.
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    Facebook friend request sent

    She's been 'alpha widowed' and can't forget about him. He's now the benchmark for every potential suitor to live up to. In her mind and as parents, they have a special bond for life and every man she will encounter will be compared to the fantasised version of him. You can't win. Not even for a...
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    How to respond to this?

    What's wrong with her? You need to wake up dude. She doesn't want to be with you and now you're trying to negotiate desire, but not really since she even seems to be neutral to that idea. Or you can drag it out and see her turn into a coldhearted b*tch in front of your eyes because you're not...
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    Types of marriages

    Easy, go to the nearest dog shelter and you'll find loyalty for life. Cheap too.
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    Protein powder

    OP doesn't want to hear IF he should take protein powders or not, he wants to know which ones to look for. General guideline: Look for organic and leave out the sweeteners. Yes, they are not black flagged but why take the gamble and tbh i don't miss any "taste" at all. It's like drinking water...
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    Girl sent me a video of her kissing another guy

    Reaction is what she's looking for, so no reaction is the best reaction. If it's not helping you, it's not of interest. Goes back to rewarding good behavior and punishing bad behavior. Don't reward nonsense with your time and energy. Removal of attention is the only real punishment women...
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    Covid19 Destroys The Central Nervous System, Scarey Read

    Sorry to hear that. In what ways do you still feel the effects?
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    about a girl who asked for a open relationship

    Emotions always trump logic. Girl asking for an open relationship = i want to fvck around while you're there waiting for me. I want the cookie and eat it at the same time. Only to become jealous when you actually go through with it. Women want men that are capable of cheating/popular with women...
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    How to proceed with this women on insta?

    'Well I’m not interested in dating you, wanna try and get xmas out the way to see if i meet chad. If he's not around i might let you take me out once or twice for free dinner though' Naked pics on IG is the definition of thrash anyway
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    GF of 4 months broke it off today

    Just means she tries to get a reaction from him and make his hamster spin. Likes are a cheap way to try to make something happen without putting in any real effort and many get lured in. If she's really serious with her intentions she will pick up the phone and say she f*cked up and wants him...
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    GF of 4 months broke it off today

    Sorry this happend to you, but it's a blessing in disguise you're just not aware of... yet. You will grow from this and find better women and make better judgement calls in the future, i promise. Or else you wouldn't have found your way to this forum. It shows that you want to work on yourself...
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    Message from daughters mom.........

    Deal with the source and not with the messenger. This will be the relationship that truly counts for the rest of your life. Your ex most often will not be a true friend and ally, she'll be a woman using manipulative tactics to her advantage when it suits her. I've noticed that mothers have honed...
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    My friend just got dumped from his long time GF

    It can only be 2 or 3. Since i assume you only hang out with self respecting dudes i'd assume he would immediately leave her without arguments @ number 2, which leaves #3. 3 is the final answer, especially in these times of Corona.
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    6 pack abs and girls?

    "Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs?" Having to choose, i say 6 pack abs since you can't have a 6 pack without being lean. Being lean means having a lean face and a lean face is much more attractive than the opposite, so yes, girls will notice your 6 pack, just in a...
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    Asking what my plans are tonight

    This is chick language for "hey, i'm asking about your availability because i want you to notice me and preferably invite me to something fun so take the hint and make something happen." Translation: She's interested in you, make something happen if that is what you what to do. Like i.e...
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    Fasting and fat loss

    Hey man, i had to react to this because what you're doing is not healthy. Your intake is 1500 calories per day AND you work out which puts your deficit way over 1000 calories per day compared to recommended normal intake for a man (2500). Meaning your weight loss will be unhealthy for your body...
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    When a woman loses weight after getting divorced for "revenge", why couldn't she have done it before?

    Nothing motivates you like being rejected by someone you deeply care for. I assume it's the same for women. Also being single makes you naturally want to raise your SMV as much as possible to find the best possible mate. Third thing, women seem to be very into making a major change of some sort...
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    You are such a Nice Guy

    Says nothing without context. If it bothers you being called nice, then that's a problem of insecurity you've to work on. You find it insulting because it hurts your manly ego, but remember that women are a reflection of yourself. If anything, be mad at yourself and calibrate your...
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    Dealing with embarrassment of performance anxiety

    No personal experience of this, but.. Also, it takes two to tangle. This was not a good sign. If she's into you, she will do it just because YOU enjoy it. That's how a woman acts when she's truly into you. I'm guessing here but you probably made sure her needs were met before yours. This...
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    Why do men on sosuave want to get married?

    Ahh and ALL of his content was removed from SoSuave. Weird, but apparently 'personal decision'.
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