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  1. bcude

    Does dating a single mommy help a man develop as a man?

    Good information in here and the length of the thread once again shows what a sensitive topic this really is, but no one seemed to have highlighted the biggest issue of dating a single mother and what makes them the most dangerous women to date out there. Out of necessity of her situation a...
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    Do you tell her how much you make?

    Women NEVER want full disclosure. Nothing is more self-satisfying for a woman than to think she’s figured a man out based solely on her mythical feminine intuition. Other general points, let women work for your answers. Stay mysterious, it makes you more interesting and in return makes her talk...
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    Divorce, 50/50?

    What's the point of a prenup then if it holds no value according to posters in this thread? I thought it was to protect things you accumulated before entering the marriage.
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    How do you rate a girl?

    I don't use the rating system either but i's good to get an idea. 9 body, 7 face is 8 overall. Quite high for my taste but could make for a good partner. A 'butterface' will always make for a better gf than a stunner in the face with mediocre body with all else being equal. The stunner gets so...
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    Will Smith Alpha or Simp?

    Here are some videos on the subject for anyone interested.
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    Is the thrill of the Bad Boy so overwhelming that even smart women fall for them?

    Intelligence and rational thinking takes the back seat when emotions take over, this is especially true for a being that by design is a slave to her emotions and deeply craves the emotional roller coaster that a 'bad boy' (ie a guy that knows how to trigger the spectrum of different emotions in...
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    Fasting and fat loss

    Fat loss is just a positive side effect from the forced calorie restriction when you've been fastning. The real win comes from all the health benefits, better cognitive ability, more brain cells, less IGF1 growth hormone means less chance of diseases, repairing of cells, prolonged lifespan etc...
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    Is cold approaching a fundamentally non-normal activity?

    Haven't seen the clip but yes it is a non-normal activity. Back in the day when we were living in tribes and a beta male thought of the brilliant idea to hit up a woman in his tribe, who by default was attached to an alpha male. What do you think happened? He got his face smashed in by a rock...
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    More text game fails...

    Yeah, she's not interested. Just tell her "ok, hit me up if you want to hang out sometime" so you'll waste no more time and leave the door open for this ragazze to re-initiate. On another note, scrolling through this forum and according to other members it seems as if italian women are the...
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    Update: ex didn't reply.

    Oh dear, this is painful to read..... the delusions knows no end.
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    California shut down gyms AGAIN.....

    Don't you have outside gyms where you live? I'm sure California is full of them, so what's the problem? I'm sure you can manage but i suspect this is just another attempt to whine about the virus thing. It's getting old. If people would stick to the restrictions set up by the government, they...
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    Falling in love with the woman I've been seeing

    Man, you've been here 10 years and ask beginner questions, with all due respect. It's a beautiful thing to feel this strongly for someone, but as others have said: Your job is to have fun dates and have sex with her. Her job is to suggest an exclusive relationship. You don't want her to see...
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    What is frame? Simple IDGAF

    I know there are two schools of thought here and i'm sure both have merits. I agree with Rick that it depends on the infraction. S & D is the only thing women really respond to, but i believe it can be overdone and abit too one dimensional if the goal is a thriving relationship. It's not that...
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    I got "banned" from Hinge

    If you think this is bad you should check out the reviews from places like seeking.com, it's loaded with comments from men who paid lots of money (i think it's something like 100 bucks a month) and got banned immediately and randomly accused of harrassment, using sexual language and BS like...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    This is child's play and attention seeking behavior. By accepting and following her back you give her everything she was looking for. Now she can relax again until the next time her bf didn't call her back.
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    "Do I look fat in this"?

    Sometimes you've to be smart and choose your battles for your own sanity when interacting with a woman longer term. Just as you choose which arguments to ignore and in which ones to make your stand so to speak. Any comment that could be perceived as negative about her dress and i'll promise you...
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    I can't believe I'm 38 and haven't been on here in several years (Updates and suggestions needed)

    You would be truly optimistic if you expect things to go back to normal (pre Covid19) before 2020 ends, it's just not realistic. No vaccine, no herd immunity, another wave will come etc. this will take some time. Seems like they will have a vaccine ready at the end of the year though, which...
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    Some advice as to how to proceed?

    I honestly believe the no sex after entering your home twice played a big role here. When a woman volountarily enters your castle especially on a first date, she already knows in the back of her head that sex is very likely going to happen or expects it to happen, it's riskier and puts her in...
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    Some advice as to how to proceed?

    A blessing in disguise for you. Single mother's are dangerous territory even for seasoned vets.
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    Will Smith Alpha or Simp?

    I always assume self awareness and the man's responsibility, in fact he's the most responsible for the fate of the relationship as its leader. However, in today's environment data is pointing towards most (not all) relationships will end sooner or later. I was merely pointing out that whether...
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