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  1. bcude

    Why would a woman start a relationship with a man she knows is a player?

    Why would you choose to eat juicy burgers over salads even though you know the salads are healthier and better for you?
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    How does one friendzone a girl?

    That works very well to get her to pursue. Female brain will work like this "wait, WHAT. Did he just friendzone ME?! *insert beeping alarm because of hamster overheating* Am i not attractive enough?? Now i feel SAD and frustrated. I don't want to feel this way, i'm going to show him! He's hotter...
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    baby momma situation

    Serenity nailed it. This is completely over and dead. You haven't had sex for 2 years and she doesn't mind you having sex with others while fvcking other men but seeking therapy for her trust issues. Come on, this never worked from the beginning and you are completely friendzoned and she's in...
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    Wow haven't been on here in a while still need advice

    And you still got 3 kids with her? I'm not here to judge but wtf dude this is just irresponsible bringing kids into a doomed household. You have no options at this point.
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    Happy LTR anyone?

    There was some epic post many years ago that stated: If you want a great relationship, start reading parenting psychology books (not the new age feminist ones) and dog training books. This might sound abit harsh but there's alot of truth to this. You want to adopt the mindset of a father...
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    Is she trying to keep me a secret?

    Note that i wrote "better" indicator, it's not 100% but much better than basing it off social media posting. Exceptions doesn't make a rule and you left out alot of information, maybe you came off too platonic in this case, maybe she was a social outcast and just proud of finding a friend, who...
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    Is she trying to keep me a secret?

    In theory, yes women who are crazy about you want to show the world what a great catch she has roped it and communicate that you are taken, to give her validation. Worrying about this is a waste of time because not all women need this and you shouldn't care anyway. Just know that places like...
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    Current situation

    I've seen alot of Dating Guy's material. He's solid, no BS advice just to part you from your money taking advantage of vulnerable guys who just got dumped, so listen to him. "Love chat" is another youtuber i can recommend.
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    Trust and keys

    That's the only Rollo Tomassi rule i don't fully understand. "Never move in with a woman if you don't plan to marry her within 6 months". I understand the theory why it's not a good idea because it diminishes your ability to walk away and increases her control over you and your whereabouts in a...
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    Current situation

    RicBoy, Whatever you feel like doing, do the opposite. There you have your answer on how to handle most situations regarding post breakup you might find yourself in. If you really acted bad, not only in your self-accusing state of mind, but objectively. Then ONE apology after the fact is okay...
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    Messed up early with this chick, salvageable or move on?

    My personal opinion is yes, a girl who makes you wait for sex generally is raising the probability that she might be a better fit for a relationship. There is no magic amount of dates for a kiss or bang, the key is that you want to see progress. If she refuses to kiss you after two fun vibing...
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    Messed up early with this chick, salvageable or move on?

    Good job. You got what you wanted. See how easy it gets when you're honest and straight to the point? It saves you alot of time, your most precious asset.
  13. bcude

    Do you find her attractive ? Rate her

    Hard to say under those million layers of makeup. Do you have a morning pic?
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    Air BnB Experiences

    What? Now this sounds like paranoia, or extreeemly bad luck like once in your life? OP, go for it. It works like a charm. It's usually cheaper than a hotel with a more authentic experience. Just go for the "super hosts" and you will never go wrong. I've lived in many all around the world and...
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    15 "likes" on tinder, is it legit?

    This. They are legit but they're very unattractive girls in my experience so ignore it.
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    The Communication Dilemma

    Yeah this "communication is everything" is their default way of handling things, talking is like therapy to women and strengthens the connection. Just don't take this non-communication too far. In a relationship it's a necessity to some degree, you are after all two individuals who are trying to...
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    More protests against lockdown

    Car accidents are not contagious and they don't grow out of control. It's a complete useless comparison. No one wants to keep the economy shut down, but it's not like politicians had any choice once it got to a certain point. It's just the consequence of the situation (of early inaction) to...
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    What's your relationship like with your mother?

    How does a woman understand that she has to put her priorities in that order, when her (minor) children are always supposed to be no1? And naturally so since they need to be attended 24/7. That's the big dilemma for single parents. You're either a great mom and a bad partner for your loved one...
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    38DD - your opinion?

    Those things say alot about her and what she's expressing (edgy, attention-seeking, adventurous aka promiscuos), they correlate very well with women not very suited for relationships based on experience. Not set in stone because every rule has exceptions, but good to be aware of it when you vet...
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    Easiest way to tell if a city, country or culture sucks for dating.

    Well said, this is so true. In my country a feminist minister went out and stated that women are the real victims during this pandemic, because of more violence in the homes where women get abused etc. while ignoring the fact that 70% of men are hospitalized and hooked to ventilators because of...
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