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  1. bcude

    Bcaa-amino acids

    I was curious about it too, until i realised you get them in every normal protein powder, making them completely unnecessary to buy separately and yet another confirmation that the industry is doing its best to sell you all bunch of sh1t that really only makes a difference on ELITE level. If...
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    Ex reaches out dor second time in 9 months

    She didn't get a reaction out of you after 5 months, so she had to change tactics and try something else. Girls can be very creative in this area, i speak from experience. She wants attention and ideally open the lines of communication just to see where you're at. Mostly to see how you're doing...
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    Are Traditional Dating Sites Dead?

    They're not dead, in fact they're thriving (see why further down), but women who genuinely want to meet up are maybe hesitant due to covid and new lockdowns. AW's are uneffected. Be smart and own mtch group (owner of many dating apps) instead, the stock printed a new all time high yesterday...
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    Marriage is slamming your foot on the gas in a car with no brakes

    Leaders marry mostly because of image since that's what you're supposed to do in the eyes of society, so they need to be a role model in that sense. Image and setting up a stable environment for their offspring. Super important for political leaders like Trump if you want to be seen as a serious...
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    Why dont beautiful women have boyfriends?

    9s and 10s only sleep with the highest value men due to their sexual strategy. By the time they're done on the carousel they are not settling, if she does she is bored and still looking for the alpha she used to ****. 2 things. 1) the highest value men are not in majority so finding a man is not...
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    Best way to tell a girl you want nothing serious?

    They are all biologically programmed to want to capture you into a relationship sooner or later if you exhibit value and you spend enough time together, so you will eventually have to make the decision if that's what you want or not. However, i've found the best approach in dating in general is...
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    Deadly dating mistakes

    I have the same approach saying "i'm recently single so i want to date and have fun. If i happen to meet someone i click with i would be open for something serious in the future" and it seems to backfire for me with chicks i've just matched with on OLD who bring it up. When they hear me say it...
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    Poland bans abortions

    Poland basically bans legal abortions which is met by heavy protesting. "The ruling means abortions will only be allowed in instances of rape, incest or if there is a threat to the woman’s life." Your thoughts...
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    Trouble with tinder?

    Tinder is 100% photos, so my first question is; good photos, according to whom? A good photo in your eyes can be a left swipe for girls and a bad photo in your eyes can be intriguing and a right swipe. Try photofeeler or have a girl look at them to see if the photos really are good, not that i...
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    When Her Ex Still Follows Her on Social Media

    Very well put. No, you're either not getting what he's saying or you're not ready to take the information in. It has everything to do with the topic of this thread. Your MINDSET is not where it should be, you're concerning yourself with things that shouldn't be of concern. You're not exclusive...
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    When She Never Asks You Out

    Is she the same when you meet her? A woman usually does start to invest more and more as the relationship progresses, especially after sex. Sex is a huge barrier when it comes to comfort and investment. However, the important part is that she responds well to your advances, agrees to dates etc...
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    The myth of 8 hours of sleep

    The thing is this. Don't mess with your sleep, period. However, your 18 year old self probably needs 8+ hours for optimal functioning, but your 35 year old self only needs 7 so don't panic just because you don't get to those 8 hours as a hard and fast rule. It will vary from person to person and...
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    When Her Ex Still Follows Her on Social Media

    You've bad boys cheating on their gf's left and right but they still would take them back in a heartbeat. Then you've the common scenario where the guy becomes too soft and accomodating and shows no self-respect. Women are delighted to get rid of such a specimen and would never give them a...
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    When Her Ex Still Follows Her on Social Media

    Because it's the biggest ego stroke ever to have an ex follow AND like your pictures, especially as a girl living for attention and validation on IG. She loves it. He was also unfaithful, which means she probably still sees him as attractive and her respect for him is intact. Infidelity and the...
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    When Her Ex Still Follows Her on Social Media

    This can only be a problem for you if you care about this woman and see something serious with her down the line. That's your real problem here. She isn't long term gf material. So if you want to protect yourself, don't get emotionally involved. Meet her, bang her, have fun. Rince and repeat...
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    Why you should stay *No Contact* (my story)

    Don't even answer. She decided she wanted to move on, so she's part of the past now. Why would i entertain the past if i didn't want anything from her anymore? To be polite? To give her the ego boost of knowing i still want her by giving her my time? No. However if you answer. Be a little bit...
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    I've noticed this pattern in all plates around the 2-3month mark.

    General thoughts: I wouldn't say it's a power struggle to try to get commitment. I think most women at some point does the pullback consciously or (most often) subconsciously to see if you will 'bite' and show neediness. It's part of the assessment of you as a potential partner for her. Usually...
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    Q: Dude snapchatting my GF...

    Excellent post and the most important point here. If she, like most women nowadays has used social media her whole life and no specific boundaries were set at the beginning of the relationship regarding social media presence, then how can you fault her for enjoying free attention? I think she...
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    Problematic breakup

    This is bull$hit, do you hear how ridiculous it sounds? Remember this: When a girl doesn't want to be with you, you let her go. When she wants space, you give her the universe. This is because you can't negotiate desire and only want be around girls interested in you, who respect you. Anything...
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