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The woman you see as your ex only exists in your head. If she was perfect for you, she wouldn't have left you. By definition, a suitable LTR is not someone who refuses to go out with you. Food for thought. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will be able to move on.

It's long been documented that people tend to overestimate their own attractiveness.

The thing a fat chick has going for her if she has a cute face is, her secondary sexual attributes often become bigger (boobs and @ss). That provides some point(s) of interest, if the guy is horny enough. A fat guy is just a fat guy, if anything his penis will get smaller.

I've definitely had negative experiences with women, but I mostly blame myself for them. In some cases, it was foolish of me to emotionally invest in them without good cause. A lot of guys are only interested in woman for the sex, and that attitude is even promoted her as masculine. But I...

68% of men don't date? Seems like a pretty high number. I enjoy the company of women too much to willingly live my life without them. From reading this forum and other such material, I get the impression a lot of guys don't actually like women. I'm guessing this has a big effect on whether...

Ah, I see, yes I think that would make a difference.

That's interesting. I'm not disagreeing, but that is pretty much the opposite of what the PUA gurus used to push. They said you should always be talking about sex, teasing them about it, etc., in order to put it into their mind, and make it clear exactly what type of encounter you were expecting.

That's very awkwardly worded, but my initial interpretation of it is this: She's saying you seem like a bad boy, and do you get the impression she is the type to go for bad boys? In other words, do you take her for the kind of woman to engage in cheap sex? I find her remark vague and...

Another thing is maybe the guys look better to the girl than they do to you, or even to the OP's sister. You could post the same picture of a girl here, and guys will rate her quite differently. And guys don't tend to find other guys appealing, or really understand what girls might see in...

I also disagree that men should drop out of the workforce. Men should still pursue excellence, there is more to life than women. As for the top 20% of men, from what I take from the manosphere, these guys don't want a beautiful woman, they want many beautiful women, and will also bang Plain...

You don't have to drop out of society to drop out of the dating market though. Besides which, it appears that females will be mostly happy sharing the top 20% of guys, and the top guys will be happy to service the women. It only takes a small number of men to impregnate or please a large...

I just think that you can Go Your Own Way from women without dropping out of society. Women haven't given up seeking success.

I see this theme repeated a lot here. Okay, so the guys drop out of society, and don't play the game. What do the guys get out of it, other than failure?

I don't think rejection does anything positive for you. However, knowing that you are able to proactively cycle through another 5,000 women in order to get laid gives you strength.

Also, back in the '50s and '60s, in order to live their best lives, women needed to secure a husband to support them financially. That fact evened the playing field considerably. But that role has been replaced by the government, and also by themselves (women are now more likely to get a...

What about guys who eat @ss? I never could figure out the appeal of that.

Mens parts are exterior though. Not as wet as vaginas. What would be the female equivalent to playing with boobs? Abs? Comparatively boring. I can see why women might not like giving BJs, there's a nastiness factor there. I don't think they like the actual act. But they might like the...

Do you work in this small town or commute somewhere else? If you're not currently working, maybe you could get a job in a bigger town or city. Then maybe you can build a social network from there. I hate commuting myself, I've never had to drive more than 10 minutes to work. I know people...

No HJs? Really? It seems to me the first thing a woman does when you go to bed with them is they grab for your D. That's why this whole thing seems odd to me. If you go by these interviews, women don't like any sexual activity at all except maybe kissing and the main event.

I mean some clearly like it, if only to the extent that it gives pleasure to the guy. But maybe it has something to do with hormones. Maybe when they are in their "off" position for sex, they aren't into it. But once the hormones start rolling, then they might suddenly find certain things...