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  1. zekko

    what is wrong with saying "sorry" to women?

    Nothing wrong with apologizing if you've done something wrong, but you don't want to make it a big production. A simple statement, said once, should suffice. No begging, supplicating, or groveling. I think when manuals say that, they mean be unapologetic about what you want and about going...
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    Your ideal age range

    Sorry, I misspoke. She's 48 now. The old brain gets fuzzy as you get older lol. I was 42 and she was 27. Well, he's a D list celebrity of sorts. If you have a name, usually there's a way to make money off of it.
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    Your ideal age range

    Do they still have a website? I've been looking for it, but can't seem to find it. Are they under a different name now? Well, she gets half credit :)
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    Your ideal age range

    Most of them, no. I know a few in that age range that are attractive. But, as is the case with most attractive women, they are either taken, head cases, or just not my type. Well, I'm convinced the whole world is falling apart. But all this is just hypothetical, I have a girlfriend I...
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    Your ideal age range

    I'm 63, and I was thinking the other day that if I were to look for a girl in my age group, I would have no idea who they are. I mean I know the rough age of people/women I know. But to see a stranger and guess her age, I'm not too good at that. In my mind I'm still like 24 lol - it can be a...
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    Why do some very attractive women go for average guys their entire life?

    As a man, I am impressed by his fitness level, and what he can do with that strength and power. Obviously I don't get any sexual attraction vibes from it, maybe a woman would. Would it be pure aesthetics though, or would they be attracted to what he could do for her (provide and protect, open...
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    Scarcity mindset is not a negative thinking pattern when it is based in reality most of the time

    I think in order to have a true abundance mentality, you have to build abundance for yourself. A man has to build his social life and his experience so that he knows he can attract women. And if he is able to build a true rotation of plates and maintain it consistently, then he has abundance...
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    Why do some very attractive women go for average guys their entire life?

    I wouldn't know about that, but I would guess Larry David actually wrote those words.
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    Taken Girl Sexts Me

    I would hope so. Unlike some others on this forum, I don't view monogamy as a dirty word. I'm just saying there are all types of women you might encounter out there.
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    Taken Girl Sexts Me

    That's true. Plus, I even know married couples who have an open marriage - each one can and does seek whatever outside partner they can get.
  11. zekko

    Why do some very attractive women go for average guys their entire life?

    I saw the Seinfeld episode today where Elaine sums this up nicely. She says "The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian, it's for getting around, it's like a Jeep. It's hideous - the hair, the lumpiness, it's simian." This largely matches what I've always said. The...
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    Taken Girl Sexts Me

    Lots of women like to fool around on their men, and just take it for granted that that's what people do. It's up to you whether or not you want to be involved in that.
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    Why do some very attractive women go for average guys their entire life?

    Not really. Only a few look passable IMO. With most, you can tell something looks "off". But yeah, female beauty is surprisingly common. It's both fleeting and common somehow.
  14. zekko

    should you talk to a woman like a guy?

    Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't recall Pook ever saying that. He said you should talk to your girls like they were your bratty younger sister. I've never had a bratty younger sister, so that bit of advice meant basically nothing to me. Anyway, I imagine what they mean by talk...
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    Factors that get a man bumped down on the looks scale

    Obviously you're talking about The Wheel of Time. You may be right. I avoided reading it for a long time simply because it was too long. I'm a bit of a slow reader. I just feel on a matter of principle that you should be able to tell an effective tale in less space than 14 books that are all...
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    Factors that get a man bumped down on the looks scale

    I've been reading Robert Jordan's The Wheel of Time books recently. I've long been a fan of Tolkien and his work. Those two are probably the most popular fantasy genre authors. Fantasy deals with these mythical, larger than life beings. In Tolkien's Middle Earth, the grandest beings, the...
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    Would You Ever Pursue A Friend's Plate? Where Are The Boundaries?

    If it's really that small of a thing, then why bother with it at all? Considering there are potential complications and all. Another thing, if you tell the guy she's been giving you clear signals, what's to stop the guy from telling the girl that and subtly shaming her? She might get...
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    Factors that get a man bumped down on the looks scale

    I agree. Sometimes it's obvious, some characteristics are obviously attractive, sometimes it's not. I think most of us have looked at a guy and been mystified about what is bringing women to his table (It's like "Really? THAT guy?"). We're not women, we can't see everything in the same lens...
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    Advice on LTR breakup

    Yeah, learn whatever lessons you need to learn and take them with you. And that is one of them, as unpleasant as it may be. You need to keep yourself in check. It doesn't do any good to invest so heavily into another person that you give them the power to cripple you if they leave.
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