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Yep. I've had this issue when I was nervous/anxious with a new girl. When your clothes are on there is no expectation for you to perform (hence less anxiety). If you try to force yourself to get an erection on demand, it may backfire. Next time, just try to keep yourself mentally calm &...

Thanks, NC it is. BTW, burn/shred that unread letter ASAP!

Stay strong brother! Same situation here. NC for 9 days now. Fell in love with a BPD cougar. 18 months now. Half a dozen breakups. Sex was too good to ignore and I kept going back. I'm plagued by my co dependency and my scarcity mindset. But reading these forums helps keep me mentally...

You know what we did in the military? Push ups. Lots of them. You know what it did for the physique? Not a damn thing. Not for me, and not for any of the guys who did them. The guys who did the most pushups were usually the skinniest dudes with arms like pipe cleaners. If you're bored and...

Damn kids and their rock and roll http://static4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20111002053618/simpsons/images/b/b1/Hi.jpg

I'd totally bang a cougar again. And what dasein said.

edit: betheman beat me to it. what he said

So you're going to quit pursuing your engineering degree so you can focus on your career in fast food (or equivalent)? Seriously bro? Tons of people have worked their way through school (including myself). I'd recommend doing both (school and work) at the same time, sounds like you could...

Armyboy, great guide, thank you. A few categories/specifics I would like to see covered in future revisions: - Leather jackets: types, colors, when & where - Cologne - Pant types other than jeans: cords, chinos, etc. - Black jeans...when, if ever? - Casual shoes...any coloring rules when...

I must be missing something.

Where can I find said advice?

I noticed the pre-edit response as well. Either way, I'm not sure your response was the correct one...I'm thinking a response of "Cool, I'm busy tomorrow, maybe some other time" and then going ghost for a few days/week, waiting for her to contact you, would be a good gauge on her interest level.

Definitely sounds like a cluster B nutjob. Also check out NPD and HPD. Note that they typically aren't mutually exclusive, there is a high comorbidity rate. Stable relationships with cluster Bs are pretty much impossible, so demote her to FWB/FB if you can handle the drama as a trade off for...

According to The Onion, their sex life has never been better: http://www.theonion.com/articles/michelle-obama-opens-up-in-marie-claire-our-sex-li,34160/ Not sure who to believe more, The Onion or the National Enquirer...

I've read some good things about the cardio in the AM on an empty stomach, haven't been able to try it myself due to my schedule. Gaining muscle while cutting is tough; I've read about it but never been able to do it. How I cut: - Hypocaloric diet, avoid high GI foods, eat small meals with...

Stop being a b!tch. You need to force yourself to do this, whether you're comfortable with it or not. You know it and I know it. You're putting too much pressure on yourself, and toomuch weight in what others may or may not think of you (and you've already been invited...wtf?). Fvck the...

No boozing? IIRC, BPDs typically self medicate with drugs or alcohol. "Casting spells"? Could have been a joke, but keep an eye out for other delusions. Horrible childhood? Join the club. Knows about BPD? I know about BPD, but I'm not BPD. Or it could be her projecting. I wouldn't eject...

If you really like this chick, and aren't ready to walk away just yet, do what papawapa said. At least make her work for it.

I'm 6'. Do you want me to train you to be tall? Here are some free tips: - Hang upside down for 3 hours a day to stretch out your spine. Hold a 45lb plate while you're doing this, the extra weight really helps. - Buy every penile enlargement pill that you can. It makes you taller while...

Thanks GotED, I think I was drawn to the shoe precisely because of the finish. I'm just not a fan of high gloss with jeans. I was thinking these would be great for work (business casual at most) and for dates. Then go with the more traditional glossy black wing tips/cap toes for the suits and...