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    kind of been hung up on this girl

    Now according to ********, this could be her telling you to make a move on her!
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    SILENCE and DISTANCE

    @Glassguy ain’t taking no sh#t as always!
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    SILENCE and DISTANCE

    Low interest rather than disrespect, alas I’m being a touch pedantic. He does say it’s done covertly which makes sense. Yeah it’s a great post for sure from Guru, Ive saved it. Haven't been here long but you learn pretty fast the members, both past & present, that possess a lot of wisdom.
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    SILENCE and DISTANCE

    I was thinking the power of S&D is that it is done covertly. I’m thinking in the instance of you noticing her interest level dropping, so employing it to raise her interest, the gift of missing you etc. Being covert gives her the sense that your interest for her is dropping genuinely hence the...
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    SILENCE and DISTANCE

    But S&D is expressing displeasure in an indirect way. Not against it though, clearly works, but I think it’s a form of PA.
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    SILENCE and DISTANCE

    A great thread guys, definitely see the usefulness of Silence & Distance as a tool. I had a thought... this is passive aggressive behaviour right? How would this pan out on a passive aggressive woman? Stalemate?
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    The fluff zone

    Excellent tip and easy to remember, thanks. @samspade thanks for the link, those are some fantastic questions.
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    The fluff zone

    Any tips on transitioning out of fluff talk? If I start it to build comfort I seem to get stuck in it, convo gets boring fast.
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    kind of been hung up on this girl

    Pook turned it around.
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    I was talking to a woman about cold approaches:

    Sometimes I’ll cross paths with a woman and will hardly look at her, much less approach her and I’m getting the vibe she has a B shield up. Im not even interested and she’s not all that, kind of irritates me, seems so arrogant. I realise highly attractive women have to because of so much...
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    No Contact & Validation question

    What if I’m trying to have her as a side piece so my place is a no go!
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    No Contact & Validation question

    I’ve seen it said here that a woman may return after a period of no contact only to get more validation from you. What’s the best tactic for showing interest without giving to much validation?
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    Got the hots for my friend

    I would also say if you have been acting passive/platonic for a reasonable length of time she is going to see you in that frame. Making a move straight from that frame is unlikely going to work, you are going to have to change the frame first which requires some time.
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    Got the hots for my friend

    “Embrace your sexuality” - Pook Don’t be passive, Lead and see if she follows...
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    What is red pill, blue pill, etc mean?

    Do you think red pill theory can ever become dominant over blue pill theory in time through awareness spreading online or not?
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    Shifting Perceptions

    Yeah thanks I’ve been reading the bible, great stuff. These types of woman are not friends, I just have some familiarity with them. I wasn’t thinking about overtly going for them, rather changing how I am with them. Touching, teasing generally being more playful, but also never speaking of any...
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    Shifting Perceptions

    Hey everyone, new to the forum, good to be here. Feel like I’ve been in stasis for almost 20 years (LTR). Went through some pain about 8 months ago which started me on this journey looking for answers. Ive been consuming all this information on women, seduction etc etc at a rate knots! It can...
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