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Yeah that’s true. I know what has to be done. I think one aspect of the advice I’m seeking is experiences others may have had in the aftermath of dropping the bomb. Anything unexpected happen? I have a workshop to clear, it’s going to take a few weeks sort things out.

1 2 in a nutshell, nicely summarised.

Simply because I’m not present in the relationship and it’s not very loving. I don’t treat her well in that regard. That said make no mistake this all about me and what I want. Now given she is the mother of my daughter if I can at least give her a paddle while leaving her up sh#t creek that’s...

No it’s Oh no it’s entirely selfish reasons, Its called making space for someone new.

That’s what I was thinking, I’m sure she will be upset though. I think I’m going to get hammered about money from her mother, about how much she has to spend each month on living expenses and how is she going to cope. She has never been good with money, the more she earns the more she spends...

My daughter is never home these days, she has virtually moved out. She has so many of her own interests occupying her. At 19 I was thinking she would handle it far better than say if she was 12 etc. She will have seen this with some of her friends parents, and would kind of understand given she...

Been in a relationship for about 22 years, I feel we have become housemates. I’m done, I don’t want to try and salvage it. Im just not happy. I’m convinced deep down she feels the same but it’s the security of the relationship that keeps her going along as in sharing financial bills etc. She...

Yeah your expressing interest/curiosity in her but your not completely sold. She has the looks but does she have a personality to match. Interested in her and Wanting her are not the same thing...easy tiger!

Ahh the art of the indirect approach. I think indirect is best with cold approach.

Just to touch on this again briefly, I had a thought, I kept reading more and more and more seduction material. It got to the point where I felt enough was enough, just wanted one or two books to return to periodically. Chateau Heartiste & Book of Pook where those two books (both a collection...

Woman@s# - I’m going out Saturday nite and could meet someone, if you don’t make a move you could miss your opportunity. ie I’d like you to ask me out.

It’s Boll@&ks, doesn’t add up, she called the Ex!

No she called the ex!

What jumped out at me was his understanding of female psychology, very cynical. Definitely a master puppeteer.

That’s interesting to know, I wonder how old he is?

Yeah I read that he seemed to lose the plot later on, but the book is based on his earlier blogs, seduction and female nature, a lot of gold in there!

Why the grain of salt? I mean it’s heavy anti-nice guy tactics for sure and you could come across as an ******* with some of the content. But everything in moderation, there’s plenty of gems in that book. Definitely worth reading.

Great book, well worth getting. It’s basically his blog posts, spanning several years, condensed into a book. There’s tons of content, a lot on female nature and why they like jerks so much.

And don’t verbally tell her you like her, SHOW HER through your actions.

Sounds like your in reactive mode, you shouldn’t worry about looking for signals from her. Lead and see if she follows.