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Yeah but the problem is without a woman in your life you have less drive and motivation for you career, anyone who says they don't is kidding themselves. Lastly we don't all luck out or are gifted with ability to make lots of money.

I lost my V-Card when I was 17 to a woman who was 33, we met over the internet playing a video game. Discovery #1 - Common interests are necessary for a healthy relationship. That relationship lasted 2 years. The first time was mind blowing, I gave her oral sex (after I had read up on...

Reading just the mature man forum has enlightened me and helped me understand my own problems much more clearly, like the wisdom here is used as to clarify and remove the murky parts of ones damaged psyche from their upbringing and genetic predisposition. All I can say is Rollo and some of...

I don't buy that, thats the only way to bond, is just to 'wait for it'. I've bonded to people completely opposite of me, there are patterns to the people I bond with. There's some core fundamentals shared. There is a rational explanation and a method to bond to others, it's all in how you...

As mystery said : THE FEAR OF ILLUSION IS REAL The fact is you are scared of women, but you fear is an illusion... you need to just keep in mind that: 1. All women are JUST human beings, they're just like anyone else except with a *****. Imagine being a woman for a second and seeing...

Socializing and Bonding with people, what are the details? I ask this because I think for many guys their "social equipment" is broken completely they were given neurology that simply does not grasp intuitively nor automatically how human connections and bonds are made. Hence we have to come...

For many men who are not good with women it will never come naturally, you have to understand that many nerds, geeks and people who are afraid of women have: 1) psychological wounds from upbringing / growing up 2) an underlying neurological disorders It just doesn't magically "get better...

In my opinion AFC'ism is complicated, and the signs of AFC'ism in men-women relationships is a sign of a bigger problem: Psychological wounds/problems stemming from crappy childhood and social developent, and problems and tensions in larger society. Society breeds AFC's and in fact we could...

You should write a post about the non-afc perspective in my opinion, because really AFC'ism has many facets, or grains in different types of guys: -Obliviousness/stupidity from childhood upbringing/social programming -Stunted maturity/arrested development -Unwillingness to change -Fear of...

Well this is exactly the problem in our modern capitalist society both parents are usually working and it sucks up the majority of their time, then the parents will come home and binge on entertainment or be up to their ears in taking care of stuff. While I am all for "equal rights" for women...

1. I've tried meds they do not work. (note: that I didn't try them for very long, but some we thought upped my appetite and I startedgaining weight) I haven't been or tried meds for quite a long time, probably at least 3 years or more. The only thing that works (lately) is when people hug me...

Girl crazy is correct, I could do public speaking if I had to, I was seriously thinking about going around to schools and giving talks on bullying because it really re-inforced a lot of negative bs that I'm still dealing with obviously. My big problems are conversation, lack of shared...

Part # 3 - I get some super "Bursts" of momentum a bit I got super motivated and started the first week of boot camp in january I lost steam a little bit because I have to focus on doing my schoolwork as well and that takes up****loads of time... but the important thing I learned was: The...

Part #2 Just before my 27th birthday this year, I lose a tone of weight (down to 190 again, then I lose another 30 lbs and now I'm 160 ****ing lbs and look better then I have in my entire life! I weighed around 190+ most of my life), I'm starting to ride a wave, I'm taking classes to see if...

POST part #1 - THE STORY THUS FAR Ok, this post has to include some personal info that may be painful for others to read but I have to do it to give you the background. I'm posting this post because its important that others read it so they do NOT MAKE my mistakes, I especially want to post...