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Her best friend spoke to me and said this; Basically she would like to be friends with you in time but needs space at the moment. She definitely doesnt want a boyfriend though, whether it be you or anyone else, you just need to let it be for the time being she'll talk to you when shes ready...

Thanks for the insight. It wasn't that we broke up, we were at this time unofficially so to speak going out with each other. She felt that her feelings were up and down a lot and it wasn't fair to string me along when she wasn't sure if she wanted a relationship. She said she didn't want to...

The night I had left hers to head home I said it was a shame that we were risking everything in the future. She said. "We're not risking it, it's gone. I wish you would listen to me, I don't think you understand the concept of space. I've tried to not be rude to you about this but you're not...

How does someone get rid of the worry of your ex girlfriend or love interest getting with other guys in the future? Right now I don't have any feelings or motivation to go and get with other women or sleep with them, I've just got feelings for my ex What's worse is that I know I will...

I suggest you take a deep breath. Occupy your time with something else. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1878240#post1878240 Print that off or read it out loud, find out what it means to you and relax.

My advice to you is this. Congratulate yourself on your accomplishment so far. That is, you have gained the number of an attractive girl. Secondly, stop over analysing and over thinking this situation. It is a curse of today's society. Worrying is effective as trying to solve a maths equation...

She's said that she no longer wants anything in the future basically because she knows what I am like now That when something bad happens I over think and worry and talk to my friends about it and she finds out and that. Said it's odd or weird that I get so worked up about someone that I have...

Where does the worry of her getting with other boys come from? I know everyone feels it at the end of a relationship or something similar. If someone said, I give you a cast iron promise your ex girlfriend or boyfriend won't end up with anyone else etc, then I imagine people wouldn't feel half...

I have come across your post from years ago on here on how to handle being stood up and dumped. You mention it it with examples of being scarce and her interest levels will come back. Basically without typing it all again the situation is here...

That really is not helpful. I have clearly thought that but this girl means so much to me that my actions are tailored towards her. How do I addresss this situation? What do I do? i do not really want advice on what I should of said or done.

What do you mean? I believe in actions not words in this case, so I didn't listen to the compliments just looked at the actions that were occurring.

To everyone here, I really need some strong uplifting words and advice from the pros here on what to do. A few days ago it felt like I had lost all my feelings for my girlfriend or girlfriend I am still seeing but not in a relationship. Basically, I managed to discover what was going on...

So you don't believe my feelings have changed, then what is it that I am feeling now, why do I not feel the excitement and such? In my head I keep thinking that I don't have feelings for her, which is destructive thinking isn't it? Can this be altered and changed? Last of all, if I am scared...

Thanks, Pimp But where are my thoughts that my feelings have changed coming from, why right now when I hold her hand or kiss her do I not feel as I usually do? How can I remedy it as well if my feelings haven't changed Also, is me thinking in my head that my feelings have changed...

I'd appreciate it if anyone could give me some advice on this About two weeks ago whilst my girlfriend and I were away from each other for Christmas on a break as mentioned in an earlier question, I started to get little doubts about the way she felt about me, which I knew was stupid, it was...

It is a straight forward answer, I got over or am getting over my oneitis, and the one girl that I have liked or sort of felt something towards rather than getting bored, was ****ed by my bestfriend, I only found out this evening from another source that it happened, and he came round and...

Well said. But this early in the game and he is asking is he being played? If you aren't careful you're going to end up shooting yourself in the foot, either by letting the paranoia get ahold of you that she is ignoring you or something else. You can usually tell when you are putting in...

Couldn't of put it better myself if I am honest. If she isn't meeting half way, she really isn't worth the energy expenditure. I mean, it's been how long and you are already on here seeking advice about her, sounds like she has been on match.com for a reason.

Okay, so, I'm just going to pick a few things out of here that really infuriated me. I mean, me myself, I have been going through a bad case of one-itis and all that, and I struggle to take my own advice, but I give it well. Okay, first of all "shed always answer my texts and would tell me...

To be honest, I don't miss her, if I think realistically, I was getting nothing from her, she was a parasite, talking pleasure from me rather than giving it out. A lot of DJ's nailed her in one, she's damaged, and C.Xuma said it perfectly, that we "waste 10x the amount of energy chasing her and...