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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    I've seen the film 500 days of summer, in fact I watched it the other week when I was flicking through the channels and it appeared. It's fair to say Summer Finn is low quality and I think high quality females are incredibly rare in the grand scheme of things. Everyone will be pleased to know...
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    Don't go chasing waterfalls!

    Hate to say it but this is actually true and it happens to us all. I had five girls "on the go" when I met my current problem I am in now and these other girls fell by the way side very quickly, in fact, I spoke to them still but I was never as content or excited as I was with this girl...
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    "Do what makes you happy" Are you happy or is it an illusion?

    Agreed. I can't tell if you agreed with my post or not though. Everyone needs the love of a woman. But then the people who don't receive this love, the ones who constantly ignore their own needs just to make her happy? That isn't love, that's being a prisoner to your own emotions...
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    "Do what makes you happy" Are you happy or is it an illusion?

    Do what makes you happy. We’ve all heard it said. But when do we know whether what we are doing is making us happy, or just creating an illusion that we are? There’s a classic scenario in the dating world that all of us have done once and it comes when we should be saying enough is...
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    I understand what you mean and I have no idea if in the next few days I would fold if she contacted me. I guess I'm looking at it this way now: If she contacts me again before I leave after me basically telling her to **** off (she knows full well why I would of reacted like that) then it...
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    What defines her as low quality? I'm certain that the majority here, if they met her would find her 'high quality' so to speak. Mr.Suave, I hate to disagree, but even with my mindset as it is now, I know that going 'cold turkey' really is the only option. At the moment it is hard...
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    In reply to tafakna: That was me sending the message to her. She merely replied, "uhh, okay then." :eek: The reply itself shocked me, any other girl I have ever known would be crawling back now and apologising realising I was on my way out. This girl really has mastered...
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    "You couldn't care less about me, about seeing me and more to the point you do not even try. **** this and **** you" Does that end things or was it to self pitying? Spearmint
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    @ JPlaya Well no because that just breaks one of the primary rules that Ross Jefferies gave us. "Leave the girl better than when you found her"
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    Thanks for all of your insight on this, it's nice to know us males can come here and speak in terms that others probably wouldn't understand or never consider. She never went to Sheffield to **** X. I had been ignoring her for two days until she was ringing me one night and she had been...
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    Is it possible to prevent Jealousy and the "she's the one" mindset?

    I recently sought out the advice of more experienced PUA's over a case of one-itis that I am going through, I love the girl, but this post is not about that. One bit of advice I received in particular was the following. "Jealousy are normal emotions and must be metered in some way...
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    That was what I was looking for first time scribblec, thank you. Where have my insecurities come from, jealousy and the feeling of not meeting someone like her again? I've never felt jealous over any other girl before.
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    Got nothing wise to offer scribblec, in future don't. Feelings are fickle are they not, one moment you can love your best friend the next you can hate them. If I feel I love her, then I do. I wasn't asking for advice or senior knowledge on that, I was asking about everything else.
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    Is it normal for me to feel this awful? I always hear and read about the scarcity factor in one-itis, is that what's going on here? I have no idea why I value talking to her and being around her so much, even a few weeks ago I sort of knew a relationship wasn't going to happen because I...
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    Background information. Around three years ago, I met a girl when I was around 15 who I completely clicked with, when i say completely, it felt that like after a few weeks we completely knew each other, we'd talk effortlessly every day. Unfortunately that ended as quickly as it started, with...
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