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So I have been reading a lot of "Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion and at this point of my life, 24 year old senior in college and a fraternity, I feel that his 'style' is what will get you labeled as the proverbial nice guy. I say this because as opposed to what a lot of youngsters do these days...

"Being beautiful (or rich or famous) has a tangential effect of being an isolating presence in one's life. Why? You must be careful whom you trust because so many have an agenda that at once is self serving and disingenuous. Everybody wants something from you, everyone has a tendency to...

1) when he says "many are hot but few are beautiful" he is really talking about the inner aspect of the woman as well as the beauty she radiates. Fyi, an average looking girl (in my eyes) is stunning if she has personality because this is what will trump her looks--she is going to age overtime...

What I like the most about his book is how he debunks players calling them "boys" etc. For guys in my age group a player, mack etc is something we aspire to be like ignoring the fact that, in reality, we cannot attract all the women we desire. I personally am sick of the games that women...

Been reading Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion as well as watching some of his seminars on YouTube. I noticed that his main point behind women and seduction all lies in the idea behind "submitting" and bring vulnerable while having a masculine edge. For example when you see a beautiful woman don't...

I tend to second guess myself on this one all the time due to the women worshipping society we live in. I remember when I was learning how to get over my insecurities I tended to not give a **** about what guys or girls thought of me and didn't make an effort to chase anyone not willing vibe...

I am a millennial and is this even possible in our society/generation? I am not trying to give ya'll a lecture but a quick back story on this man (yes he was real) Giacomo Casanova as many know it was pretty much a modern day Renaissance man, he got caught up with a lot of **** with the...

Lol yea man she knows. In fact a week during the time we were seeing each other, we were talking about ourselves and she told me straight up that she knows that "I am into her" I don't think my actions were beta because I did make moves on her when appropriate. I was telling my friend about this...

I won't put money on that the drunk night thing man lol. I am not so sure about me having taken so much time because this whole ordeal was 2 and a half weeks. Remember I did mention that whole time we we're seeing each other, that she had strong feelings for man for a good bit all he needed to...

There was a girl I met on campus, she was a transfer student looking to meet new people and get involved on campus etc. (not that it matter in my story) things I noticed about her was that she was incredibly energetic and somewhat flirty. I got the impression that she was interested in me based...

That's for damn sure, again though, I never VERBALLY stated that I wanted exclusivity. I assumed that that is what she wanted since I made this INTERNAL judgement that because she is 24 she is tired of games etc. and would want something serious and get her life rolling she actually WANTS a...

I want her man and I started grow interest in her plain and simple. I hate to lose and its really my ego that is keeping me go at it. Now the hardest part is when her sorority and mine do an event together she will be there and instead of making things awkward, do you think I should at least...

My point of withdrawing all attention is to get her curious as to why I am no longer talking to her (bait her into trying to hit me up again) do you think that will do anything

"YOU should be flirting with her YOU should be showing interest YOU should be telling her how good she looks in an outfit QUESTION: Have you EVER shown any sexual interest in her? I said SEXUAL.....said nothing about relationships,commitment,or exclusivity. Do you turn her on? Does she get...

I got a newsletter from SoSuave and it talks about Confident Persistence. I am meeting new girls here and there (so I am not focusing on this one) yet I also want this one to reach out to me sometime soon without me doing anything--and I worry she might get another guy. What makes things pretty...

What if she tells you that she is a "traditionalist" when it comes to the dating scene ( I see this as she would rather have the man ask her out on the date, make the first move, initiate the text message etc)

Should I ditch this girl PERMANENTLY or wait like 2 weeks to a month before contacting her again?

lol I never told her that I wanted that and exclusivity to me it means having sex with no one other than her. Honestly what kills me the most is how I knew I ****ed up because that little meeting of ours was something that I wouldn't do its just that I tend to get caught up in the moment with a...

I have been in an off and on communication with a girl I met at school since the beginning of the semester we started to see each other more around mid-October and my interest in her started to increase and I would convey it in my ACTIONS (she knew and complied) the hardest thing was to get a...