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2 months of having thoughts plus posting about her daily (regardless whether it's positive or negative) and hitting the gym just once = ........still invested in her (as said, the mind doesn't care if you think negative or positive about her - it's still about her) 2 months of hitting the gym...

Cheers guys. Ps. I would take that list of all the negatives you made about her and rip it up completely. Never make another list about her again. It's what betterz pointed out - you are giving her too much focus. You may think its helping by reaffirming her negatives but the mind won't give a...

Jariel, You are not a pathetic or broken man. You are a grieving and healing man. 23 days - you may not think it yourself but to me and others you are doing great. Think of the people with the lack of knowledge that you have that can't go 23 minutes without breaking contact. You are not...

Hey Jariel, It's pretty strange how you can look back and pick out specific moments where you feel you made the wrong choice eh! I think that's a great sign of learning. Good on you with the new girl, you say she's funny - how did you guys meet then? She could be a nice little distraction for ya!

I witnessed something today which you could link to this thread. So I was at a restaurant and a family was enjoying a 3 course set meal. The daughter was halfway through her main course when she stopped suddenly claiming she was full. The father said okay and excused her to use the toilet. She...

Good on you for seeking advice dude. Your getting great responses. Walk away and never look back. Easier said than done but this single action separates the men from the boys. Be the man. Now get out there and give the gift of your attention on others.

Gold medal.

Spot on BeDJ. Try to conquer while learning and quit observing others with envy. What has Mr Dirty blonde hair got over you.......nothing.

A common recurring theme occurs throughout this thread. A guy seeks advice on how to move on. A man who understands posts solid advice. The guy reads this and breaks no contact anyway. Why - his situation is unique. His hamster is telling him he's invested this much time and effort and the...

I will also add that the pain that me, you and the others here are going and have gone through shows that we are willing to risk it and put it on the line. I know people who are living very much in the shadows and not fulfilling themselves, people who are too scared to say 'hi' to a girl. I...

I would call it grief jariel. The first 2/3 weeks are most definitely the worst. I'll give you some back story on me. After the ex went completely quiet on me, I had to confront her and ask what was going on. No amount of pleading or reasoning on my part could get through to her. (we all...

You said it yourself soul......she's poison. Poison never turns to water. Regardless of time. Imagine the feeling when she knows she has lost you and your friend - 'your c()ck!' is being used on a better chick. For every trashy woman there will always be a good one. Why look in a...

Third time lucky for you now then soul. The brain will always be smarter than the c()ck!

Indeed renegade. Was I tempted to respond? Honestly......no. What was her reasoning behind all this.......who cares. I would of jumped at the chance early doors. I'm wiser now. This is just an example of how things can turn around for us all.

Here's an update - just had a msg of my ex inviting me to her friends birthday party. I've also heard from a mutual friend that she's missing me and wants me back. This is six months on. Not six hours, six days or six weeks........six months. Im coming to the belief that a woman wont care if...

Hi Soulforge, She is a very manipulative woman and quite the pro at it you say.........you think she could be that way with some of the guys on here? No chance, they would walk away without hesitation. Never tolerate this behavior mate. The very fact that you are on this site shows that you...

here's a challenge to you all - go out and show your best self and crack onto a new girl. Smash her and don't contact her ever again.......watch what happens.

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Thanks Jariel. Imagine that moment where you see her months later after moving on. You have a big smile on your face chatting to everyone around you having fun and teasing other girls. She on the other hand is looking back at you with the 'oh...what have I done' look on her face. It feels...